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Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist or antagonist when watching kinky porn videos?


I often mentally insert myself as the protagonist & that is its appeal
  52% (11)
I often mentally insert myself as the antagonist & that is its appeal
  9% (2)
I often insert myself as the protagonist but that's not porn's appeal
  0% (0)
I often insert myself as the antagonist but that's not porn's appeal
  14% (3)
I sometimes insert myself as the protagonist & that is its appeal
  4% (1)
I sometimes insert myself as the antagonist & that is its appeal
  0% (0)
I sometimes insert myself as the protagonist but that's not the appeal
  9% (2)
I sometimes insert myself as the antagonist but that's not the appeal
  0% (0)
I never mentally insert myself as the protagonist so it has no appeal
  4% (1)
I never mentally insert myself as the antagonist so it has no appeal
  4% (1)


Total Votes : 21
(last vote on : 2/27/2013 1:12:17 AM)
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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 10:07:31 PM   
Pyramus


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I guess that makes me the protagonist and BDSM play the antagonistic force to contend with.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 10:12:46 PM   
thracia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Pyramus
that makes me the protagonist and BDSM play the antagonistic force to contend with.


Seems to me the marriage is the protagonist, and kink the antagonist.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 10:55:40 PM   
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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 11:14:05 PM   
AthenaSurrenders


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I can't answer the poll because I can't see either party as protagonist or antagonist - the conflict and story arc are missing.

That said, I think porn is very much geared up to invite the viewer to place himself in the male's position (and the vast majority of porn is aimed at men). So while the women are often caricatures of what's 'sexy' with huge boobs, tiny waists, pouty lips and lots of make up, the guys are a bit more 'everyman' and often have a bit of a belly or are not traditionally good looking. Because the male body is just a stand in so you can imagine your own penis in there. They help you out with this perspective by focusing on the genitals and the girl's face and body often, and rarely on the guy's face. I'd say if you are inserting yourself where the male actor is, the porn has done it's job.

For me, I suppose when I watch it I would be inserting myself wherever the female sub was. That's exactly the problem I have with most porn - like it in theory, but in reality it's always wrong. She makes stupid noises, or he says something dumb, or the set-up is ridiculous (better no plot that some of the cheesy dialog tacked on at the beginning) or she's supposed to be a school girl but is just wearing a tartan bra and gym skirt, or there's some act which marks it out as play-acting. I can't relate, too many things turn me off. The woman could never be me.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/21/2013 3:03:41 AM   
ARIES83


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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/21/2013 3:55:09 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		None of the above. I don't watch porn. Not because I am prude or whatever, I just don't care for the quality of the product. I prefer to watch movies with good actors, a well written story line and dialogue, good cinematography, etc. I gave up on porn having any of those qualities a few decades ago.

Besides, I have a better imagination. And much hotter women.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 2/25/2013 8:21:13 AM   
thracia


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Status: offline 		I see myself as replacing the guy with the mask in the videos.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 2/25/2013 9:00:40 AM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		I try to "insert myself" as often as possible whether we are watching porn or not.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 2/25/2013 9:08:35 AM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 2/25/2013 9:56:42 AM   
theshytype


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Status: offline 		I just watch it. I don't mentally insert myself into it.
I do, however, mentally support the dominant figure to press on or press harder. I suppose that could make me a bit of a protagonist?

I like some porn, but it can't have a cheesy story line involved, a lot of teasing, or too vanilla - just get to the good stuff.

I also prefer to watch porn where a woman is submissive. The dominant can be male or female - it doesn't matter either way.
I don't think I necessarily need to relate to it, its just the thought of a man being submissive doesn't turn me on.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 2/25/2013 9:57:26 AM   
evesgrden


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I identify as the top. Is this a trick question?



< Message edited by evesgrden -- 2/25/2013 9:58:12 AM >

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 2/25/2013 10:02:28 AM   
theshytype


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I just read this.

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I try to "insert myself" as often as possible whether we are watching porn or not.


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