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In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 7:03:59 AM   
ImmortalCho


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Status: offline 		I have realized that while I am ready for a dom. I need them close and constant. I am not sure what to do.

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RE: In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 7:11:08 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Close - nearby to you?

Constant - ?

I don't understand your post. You say that you need certain things of your Dom and then say you're not sure what to do.

Why not simply screen out all Doms who can't supply that? What am I missing?

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RE: In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 7:12:05 AM   
muhly22222


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Status: offline 		Find somebody who wants to consistently be close to you? And not just in a physical sense, of course, but emotionally close.

All that means is that you aren't looking for somebody in, say, Ohio. It limits your search by geography a bit, but that's all it really means. I'm sure there are great people in Nebraska for you to meet, either on here or at real-life events, like munches.

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RE: In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 9:47:56 AM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		Attend a munch, put an ad on craigslist for a "traditional 1950's relationship"read educate yourself. Promise keepers, especially of the corn fed nebraska farm boy type, are also likely fits. MANY dominants I have met started in nebraska then "moved to the big city". Would imagine kids from previous relationship being a bigger deal than cute available female sub looking is.

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RE: In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 10:07:14 AM   
ARIES83


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Status: offline 		Can you elaborate a bit? What's your situation,
what do you mean by close and constant?

-Aries

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RE: In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 10:19:05 AM   
ImmortalCho


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Status: offline 		I should have been a bit more out there when I posted this my appoligies. What I mean is that I am looking for someone that is willing to get to know me (all of me) and if things progress the way they should find a way for that to move to the next faze of the relationship. Someone being in Ohio is not the problem. The problem is when I run into men that just want to waste my time or try to collar me right away. I ask for constant in contact and eventually in person. I ask for close well there is more than one way to be close to someone and distance wasn't what i meant.

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RE: In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 10:20:40 AM   
ImmortalCho


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Status: offline 		I hope that my post here and me reiderating what I meant helps if you still feel that we wouldn't be a fitting match I will understand. Have a blessed day

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RE: In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 10:38:48 AM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		Umm I'm all for needing contact, but assuming every poster here is looking to get in your knickers is going to lead to great disappointment! This is probably also where the issues with insta-collars are coming from. BREATHE!!!! Desperation isn't sexy, running from email to email & dom to dom with the equivalent of "when can I move in" isn't going to get the lasting bond you claim to want.
Start with limiting search to nebraska doms within 50 miles. Yes it likely is a short list, but this is where a munch comes in. Outside a 1 hour drive isn't likely to give "closeness", beibg able to see them in person will always leave lingering doubts, having a community that knows the person better/longer than you have is additional "relax this is a good guy" approval.

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RE: In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 10:54:18 AM   
ImmortalCho


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Status: offline 		Ty hun I realize that and was expressing how I felt and no one is getting in my knickers lol did you not read that the whole insta-collar thing wasn't what I am looking for ok than.

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RE: In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 11:27:29 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Cho, please allow me to translate.

I am SO tired of morons who call themselves Doms that have no freaking clue! They don't even understand that relationships take time!

How'd I do?

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 11:41:17 AM   
ImmortalCho


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Status: offline 		AMAZING lol ty

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RE: In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 11:49:58 AM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		DS can you please translate the following into _?__ for me (cause she didn't get it):
-desperation isn't sexy, calm down
-keep your search local
-here are places to find what you seek



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RE: In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 2:33:04 PM   
ARIES83


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Status: offline 		Well then, my advice is keep it local,
- Long distance mainly internet relationships
would likely have a higher chance of fakes and
inexperienced Doms, which translates into you
getting screwed around.

Keep it real,
-Meeting a person face to face sooner rather
than later should seperate the men from the
boys and also give you a chance to gauge if
there is any connection/spark.

Take it slow,
-Just because you've found someone into the
same kinky stuff as you dosen't mean that you
throw out the normal rules of dating, just say
you want to get to know him, go shopping
togeather, dinner... Stuff like that.

Good luck, see'ya later dater.
-Aries



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RE: In need of a close constant. - 1/22/2013 3:37:11 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		So you date guys and then decide they aren't your soul mate. Good, that's how it's supposed to go. You date, see if you want the same things, and if not you wish each other good luck.

Don't want to have sex immediately and then never be called again? Don't have sex immediately. Wait a couple of months until after you've established a relationship and fallen in love.

But don't expect this to happen overnight. You can't order those kinds of feelings up like on a fast food menu screen.

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