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RE: How about profile advice - 2/15/2013 8:46:42 PM

Wren1220

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I personally would not want to live in a house where the Dom was away more then he was home. Add into that he wants more then one. There is honestly no way for you to give the subs a fair amount of your time. I would never be able to call a place with those conditions a home.

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RE: How about profile advice - 2/16/2013 10:20:19 AM

sexyred1

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Personally, I always bypassed the guys that named themselves as "Master" or "Sir".

I was just typing that when you beat me to it.

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RE: How about profile advice - 2/16/2013 6:24:16 PM

PrincessDonna11

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I dont know..to me it sounds like a dating site ad other then the sub think..you give no personal info such as how much experience you have ....

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RE: How about profile advice - 3/3/2013 6:58:37 AM

MasterHarte

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Its all about being honest, If I dont learn from like minded people, what good is it. I am sorry to hear some consider me to be a creeper, Thats the fartherest thing there is from the truth about me. I am a very careing and honest person who looks for the best in life, like all I have my quarks but who doesnt. I work hard play hard and love harder. I would love to have a woman give me the gift of her submission or slavery, if it happens well great, if not well I still have a trucking company to run and a great loyal dog named captain. Life is still good.

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RE: How about profile advice - 3/3/2013 8:50:07 AM

theSwan

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterHarte

Its all about being honest, If I dont learn from like minded people, what good is it. I am sorry to hear some consider me to be a creeper, Thats the fartherest thing there is from the truth about me. I am a very careing and honest person who looks for the best in life, like all I have my quarks but who doesnt. I work hard play hard and love harder. I would love to have a woman give me the gift of her submission or slavery, if it happens well great, if not well I still have a trucking company to run and a great loyal dog named captain. Life is still good.

It's always nice when someone has passion or goals that keep them from desperation.
Your last sentence made me respect you a lot as a person.
You want that women/those women in your life but with or without her/them, you have a life that you are building and a goal you are working towards.

I do believe you should add a bit more clarity to that fact that you identify as polyamorous and desire a polyamorous household.
Though I can bring the concepts together based on what you said you are looking for - Submissive Women | Poly Household
And based on a sentence you threw in towards the end - 'My slaves will be traveling with me'

I still feel that could be overlooked and result in some hurt feelings.

Beyond that, I think you did pretty well.

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RE: How about profile advice - 3/3/2013 10:12:40 AM

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I'm not your target audience but any time I see someone using the sub/slave slashy stuff I immediately think they "just want anything" and "have no clue".

My advice is to spell out what it is you want rather than using nebulous labels in a contradictory manner. OK, so you think a sub and a slave are the same thing (most of us do not by the way). What IS that thing? It involves "safe words" obviously but what else? I have to admit I'm scratching my head at the juxtaposition of "slave" and "safe word". If I am then so are others. You would do well to paint a picture.

In addition, you're looking for a poly-ish sort of something since you want multiple subs/slaves. You weren't very clear about that up front. You had better be.

What you haven't really done is spelled out ANYTHING. You and your herd of slaves are going to be travelling with you? What's that look like? You're going to train them? Train them in what? What the heck is "the lifestyle" in your mind. For that matter, what qualifies you to train anyone in any sort of career other than your own?

Carol's response was,

Yeah, I got a safe word for this one... 'no thank you.'

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RE: How about profile advice - 3/3/2013 12:50:01 PM

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I just keep thinking, that's gonna be one crowded truck!

Having ridden long distances in rigs since I have family who are truck drivers, it's not all it's cracked up to be. You go long periods of times without a shower, it's crowded even with two people, it can get hot, it can get really cold. You can go long hours without a bathroom unless you're gonna pee in a bottle. You have to get to where you have to drop the load by a certain day and hour and there's all the other business side stuff you have to do. It's not all fun and games and just traveling to have fun.

So anyone considering this, I would hope you explain this to them so they don't get some kind of fantasy in their head of getting to see the world and travel and have fun.

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RE: How about profile advice - 3/9/2013 8:33:42 PM

phoenixasubbie

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When you get towards the end, and then again in your journal with the 'fake ass bitches" UGH.... Just UGH.

Any profile I read with these kinds of rants in them gets moved right to the NEXT pile..

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