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fwiendly babygirl/kitten searching for fellow kitten/si... - 1/23/2013 8:08:38 PM

babygirlpurrs

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hewwo!

my name is Meela and i'm vewwy new on here. i'm a submissive/light switch and more specifically i've found myself most comfortable in the babygirl/kitten role. i am polyamorous, and i do have a Daddy (44/w/Daddy dom) that lives out of state (i'm in Southern California). i'd like to meet a kitten/little/babygirl to play with as a fellow pet or to Domme as a babygirl to her pet. i'm more inclined to be submissive so i wouldnt come off as the strictest of Dommes but if thats what you crave i can gladly fulfill the role. i'm masochistic with sadistic traits and though Daddy does live out of state i would like to meet a woman that wouldnt mind playing with both of us or allowing Him to watch when He's in town.

outside of seeking a specific playmate i'm vewwy friendly and open to talk to anyone! i'm not currently looking for a Dom(me) but i'm always open for friendly conversation! \(^.^)/

nighty night lovelies!

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RE: fwiendly babygirl/kitten searching for fellow kitte... - 1/23/2013 8:43:14 PM

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Good luck in your search. I have to ask though, are you aware that your "daddy" makes no mention of you in his profile at all? That's a huge red flag to me.

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RE: fwiendly babygirl/kitten searching for fellow kitte... - 1/23/2013 8:44:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

Good luck in your search. I have to ask though, are you aware that your "daddy" makes no mention of you in his profile at all? That's a huge red flag to me.

I noticed that too. Then I was sad. :<

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RE: fwiendly babygirl/kitten searching for fellow kitte... - 1/23/2013 9:16:48 PM

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Welcome to the boards!

Considering that you're looking to involve a third in your existing relationship, it would be prudent for both you and your Dom to mention (and reinforce) each other in your profiles. It will improve your chances if you can show that commitment.

(I'm not on the fence of no mention = red flag. My girl has mentioned me in her profile, removed it, changed her pictures around, added journals - sometimes quoting me - and then deleting other entries. She wants it to reflect her as a person, and she doesn't want to be defined as a person by any relationship. I like when she quotes me, but I have no expectations of her to change her methods of self-expression. That said, make the self-expression communicate your goals and reinforce what you desire.)

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RE: fwiendly babygirl/kitten searching for fellow kitte... - 1/23/2013 9:51:25 PM

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I see what you are saying, but also keep in mind the reality that you also state about when looking for a "third."

Then I also consider she is a cute little 23 year old, fairly new to the scene who lives on the west coast, and he is a forty-something year old man who lives in Pennsylvania on the east side of the country. Something just smells wrong here, sorry. But I do take your point.

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RE: fwiendly babygirl/kitten searching for fellow kitte... - 1/24/2013 10:05:10 AM

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Welcome To CM vewwy much

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RE: fwiendly babygirl/kitten searching for fellow kitte... - 1/25/2013 6:28:59 AM

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Well gang, I think shopping for third without mentioning the second or the second mentioning the first is huge red flag. I also think that a profile as a couple shopping a third better damn well reflect the relationship... it is not a fluctuating individual statement as RemoteUser mentions.

Just sayin'

As to the OP, welcome aboard and good luck with that LDR poly online cyber sorta' thing you seem to have going. Either way, you are cute as a button with the kitty ears and cleavage.

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RE: fwiendly babygirl/kitten searching for fellow kitte... - 1/25/2013 6:49:39 AM

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Welcome to the forums.

As far as his profile not mentioning it.
Eh.. mine doesn't mention my primary partner by name.
In-fact I NEVER will.
Our profiles on fet simply state we are in a relationship.
It doesn't say with who.
So I don't see that in and of it's self as a red flag personally.

I do agree if their profiles matched up at least in general it would make it easier when looking for a 3rd even a casual one.

And OP your primary photo is adorable!

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