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Cilicia -> What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 8:41:28 AM)

As a corollary to the existing thread:
What exactly does a strapon do for the Domme?

Now that we know what the Domme gets from a strapon, it's videos like this that make me wonder, commutatively, what the malesub gets from that same strapon?
http://www.rednowtube.com/german-mistress-fuck-her-slave-652049.html?cat=Strapon

Do malesubs have lower instances of hemorrhoids, for example?

OOOPs. Corrected a typo in the all-important title.



rhymeswithcupid -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 9:27:28 AM)

... You're kinda busy with the porn sites today, aren't you?



LadyPact -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 9:43:35 AM)

I didn't look at the link that you've referenced. I'm pretty sure I can answer the question without it.

Inside the rectum of every human being, regardless of gender, are quite a number of nerve endings. Stimulating those nerve endings can bring very pleasant sensations. In other words, nobody asks if women enjoy anal sex, or seems terribly confused with the concept that they do, so you can see where I'm going with this. In addition to the same nerve endings that everybody has, males also have a prostate, which is the nice little gland that is necessary for male ejaculation. The prostate can be stimulated by the anterior rectal wall. Consider it the male G-spot. Stimulating it can bring a heightened sexual response.

As to your question about hemorrhoids, you would have to ask a medical professional whether they are more common in men or women, whether age and other health concerns are a factor in frequency, etc.



Aneirin -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 11:03:40 AM)

I wonder with males and strap ons is it a venture into territories that may interest in a way but not a place they would go, that of those things considered homosexual ?

As a pansexual I have no issues whatsoever and I know about the feelings such action can evoke and as a sub it is for me anyway the ultimate act of submission, the feeling is rather more passive than passive and I like it, it completes me, but as an xxy male, I wonder what I am seeking, which side of me is it or is it a combination of both, because many xxy's including me identify as inter sex.

The nerve endings I know about and the male G-spot and pity those that can't bring themselves to engage in what is considered to be homosexual acts to experience the highs hitting that spot can bring, but I suppose they can go down the Aneros route if they wish. But perhaps ironic the male G-spot is up the ass



Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 11:23:31 AM)

I would think being butt fucked a lot would make hemoroids MORE likely than less.
quote:

ORIGINAL: Cilicia

As a corollary to the existing thread:
What exactly does a strapon do for the Domme?

Now that we know what the Domme gets from a strapon, it's videos like this that make me wonder, commutatively, what the malesub gets from that same strapon?
http://www.rednowtube.com/german-mistress-fuck-her-slave-652049.html?cat=Strapon

Do malesubs have lower instances of hemorrhoids, for example?

OOOPs. Corrected a typo in the all-important title.

quote:

ardless of gender, are quite a number of nerve endings. Stimulating those nerve endings can bring very pleasant sensations. In other words, nobody asks if women enjoy anal sex, or seems terribly confused with the concept that the



Cilicia -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 2:27:02 PM)


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ORIGINAL: rhymeswithcupid
... You're kinda busy with the porn sites today, aren't you?


Yeah. < sheepish look > I'm, kind'a exploring my sexuality ... tryin' t' figure out what I am and what I enjoy - and what I'm not & what I don't.

The videos are an easy way to see what reaction it has on me - and the submissive stuff is brand new to me so I'm surprised at my own reaction.

Luckily the whole kink world is categorized, alphabetically, for me, in only 400 categories! LOL



littlewonder -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 3:27:49 PM)

Good luck with that.

You DO know porn is not reality, right? Right? Please tell me you know that.



PeonForHer -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 3:37:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
You DO know porn is not reality, right? Right? Please tell me you know that.


Further to that: I've this developing notion that the usual - visual - medium that men (especially) use in order to search for things to get off on can't work for some kinks. The sight of a man being pegged does nothing for me at all. The various thoughts I have of the sensations, though . . . well, they do something.

It may be that some kinks are just too outside the usual parameters of male turn-ons for the standard medium of porn to convey what they're essentially about and where the 'kick' basically comes from.



Aneirin -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 4:10:09 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Cilicia


quote:

ORIGINAL: rhymeswithcupid
... You're kinda busy with the porn sites today, aren't you?


Yeah. < sheepish look > I'm, kind'a exploring my sexuality ... tryin' t' figure out what I am and what I enjoy - and what I'm not & what I don't.

The videos are an easy way to see what reaction it has on me - and the submissive stuff is brand new to me so I'm surprised at my own reaction.

Luckily the whole kink world is categorized, alphabetically, for me, in only 400 categories! LOL



You are aware I hope what porn sites you visit does not define your sexuality, they are after all, only what interests to give you what you need to get off and the mind goes strange places when that need is with you. But what you are for now, understand something, you will evolve and it might even come to be what you end up with is the anthesis of what you started with. It is very much a journey, enjoy it and learn and as a Domme I never had the pleasure of getting closer to used to say to me, everything that interests try it twice before you come to any conclusions because the first time is not a judge of what you like and what you don't.

But understand further though you may be exploring your sexuality, understand everyone else is doing the same all the time, for it is a never ending story, most of us are open to new experiences.

Good Luck on your journey, may it fullfil you and make you a well rounded human, for the world needs beautiful people.



SomethingCatchy -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 4:55:00 PM)

I've been told that it made him feel closer to me and that it was a very unique experience to be the one being fucked instead of the other way around. I was also told that he enjoyed it because I enjoyed it.



rhymeswithcupid -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 5:38:49 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Cilicia


quote:

ORIGINAL: rhymeswithcupid
... You're kinda busy with the porn sites today, aren't you?


Yeah. < sheepish look > I'm, kind'a exploring my sexuality ... tryin' t' figure out what I am and what I enjoy - and what I'm not & what I don't.

The videos are an easy way to see what reaction it has on me - and the submissive stuff is brand new to me so I'm surprised at my own reaction.

Luckily the whole kink world is categorized, alphabetically, for me, in only 400 categories! LOL



I'm a little more than half your age so I feel kind of weird being the one to point this out to you but ... When I decided to explore my sexuality, I did it in reality, with partners I trusted. There was no porn involved. So when I say, "I'm into XYZ ..." I know I'm into these things because I actually tried them or had them tried on me.

Porn isn't real. Porn is in no way an honest representation of real sex and by your age you REALLY should know that. Just sayin ... For example, the size of that strap on is MASSIVE ... I like anal sex but if someone came at me with a toy the size of my wrist, (I think that strap on may have been bigger than my wrist.) I do believe I'd have to say no. Thats not just asking for hemorrhoids, that's asking for your entire asshole to fall out. It also creates extreme imagery that sells to inexperienced horny ppl ... Like you.

If at any point you do decide to explore these things in reality, do understand that sex without consent IS rape. (I'm talking about your anal devirginization without consent video from before, btw.) And you've only got one anus ... You can have fun with it, without putting an entire arm/leg/foot in there. Or ... You know ... Diapers could become your new fetish. (Some people are going to argue with me on this point about how the anus is a muscle and etc but I'm not taking any chances with mine. haha)

My point is, if you want to *explore* your sexuality, find someone you trust and go explore. There are a lot of things you can do on your own even. Please don't be the guy who gets his sexual education from the interwebs.



littlewonder -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 5:58:35 PM)

I think you can look at all the porn you want to, you can even find it hot and even THINK that turns you on, only to find that when you are with someone in real life, it does nothing for you or you find something else that you never even thought possible, is turning you on.

The only way you can really know anything for sure is to be with someone who you hit it off with, and I'm not talking about kink. I'm talking on a personal basis, be it casual or a romantic relationship.



rhymeswithcupid -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 6:00:31 PM)

You said that so much more eloquently than I did, littlewonder. Thank you.



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 6:46:56 PM)

He told me it feels really good to him, it's very intimate, and he enjoys it because I enjoy it. I imagine that gland that men have called the prostate probably feels pretty darn good too when it gets massaged.

NBMG



pompeii -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 10:21:17 PM)


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ORIGINAL: rhymeswithcupid
if you want to *explore* your sexuality, find someone you trust and go explore. There are a lot of things you can do on your own even. Please don't be the guy who gets his sexual education from the interwebs.


Plus, you can pay women to shove stuff up "their" asses.



Subano -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/25/2013 10:26:19 PM)

I think male subs get the enjoyment of stretching their limits.
[img]http://chan.sankakustatic.com/data/e0/5c/e05cfccf5493bb5aab02c20c19f5ccfc.jpg[/img]



CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/26/2013 12:54:54 PM)

LOL, turn that thing black and it's a cartoon of one of my strapons, a Dick Rambone.

OP, I'll answer your question. My submissive loves it when I take a strapon to him. It took me a year to work him up to a larger size, and the larger size does something more for him than the others.

He can have orgasms while his penis is flaccid...and sometimes he has what he and I refer to as "brain-gasms". The brain-gasms can hit without his having a physical orgasm and he is...completely wasted in deep subspace for the longest time. (He has subspaced during strapon play, but this is different somehow.) He has to be moved, like a rag doll, and cannot talk for a while; I have to undo any restraints on my own, move his body into a better position and cover him with a blanket until he recovers enough to drink something.

It triggers a lot of emotions in him that takes a good week to wear off.

You are welcome to write to him and ask. Maybe he can provide more information when he gets home. (His niece had a baby around midnight and he and his sister are still at the hospital.) He is so exhausted that I told him to go to bed when he gets home, so he wouldn't answer until after he wakes up.



xssve -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/26/2013 6:03:16 PM)

same thing it does for female subs - it improves the eyesight by causing the eyes to pop wide open.



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/26/2013 8:01:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia

LOL, turn that thing black and it's a cartoon of one of my strapons, a Dick Rambone.


I have a Rambone too!! My play partner frickin' LOVES that thing!!! 14 inches of WOW.

NBMG



crossboi -> RE: What exactly does a strapon do for the malesub? (1/27/2013 8:22:33 AM)


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ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia
He can have orgasms while his penis is flaccid...


wow. just wow.

I never knew that was possible!



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