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OsideGirl -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/25/2013 3:53:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Crouchingtiger77 quote: The people who are dumb enough to fall for it won't discuss it because they were dumb enough to fall for it. So, I am dumb enough to discuss it not because I fell for it; nor, realize it was a scam and therefore no reason to discuss it but because I have talked in the past with those who did financially help their sub / slave to relocate. But, I liked how you said it. Cheers Tiger The bolded part is the key right there. Helping YOUR "s" type relocate is a whole heck of lot different than sending money to someone you've never met. I've said it over and over again, if you've never met face to face....that person is complete stranger to you regardless of how much you have IM'd, spoke on the phone or emailed.....and therefore they are not your submissive or slave.

Crouchingtiger77 -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/25/2013 4:01:05 PM)
quote: I've said it over and over again, if you've never met face to face....that person is complete stranger to you regardless of how much you have IM'd, spoke on the phone or emailed.....and therefore they are not your submissive or slave Ditto's or agreed. I think I should not have started this thread. But I did read in another forum discussion on what is 'financial submission' or something to that nature. I don't want to get off thread topic but I would never think of asking a submissive / slave to give over her money even if it were to help her get a better return on her investment for her future needs and retirement being among them . Soory i just hijacked my own thread

OsideGirl -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/25/2013 4:15:52 PM)
Master has control of our finances, except for my responsibility of making sure my credit cards are paid. I cash my check and give it to him. But, we've been together a long time and we're married.

littlewonder -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/25/2013 4:32:57 PM)
Exactly. You've been together a long time....in real life and you're married. It seems that's where people get confused, which I don't understand, but they do.

SomethingCatchy -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/25/2013 4:42:33 PM)
If you're as educated as your friends suggest you'd know that giving people you don't know in person very well is a foolhardy move. Even people with a GED and no college education (me) know that.

DarkSteven -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/25/2013 5:10:59 PM)
Okay, fella. Let me put it this way. Your profile says very little about you and what you'd bring to a relationship. It just says that you want a "young woman" without saying what your definition of "young" is. And it doesn't say what a 62 year old man could offer a young woman. Let me be blunt. Your profile screams that you're new to this. Your Friends are all young women whose profiles don't quite sound right. The fact that you're international suggests that you could have money. You sound ripe for the picking. Don't do anything but learn till you get back to the States. Then join your local group and absorb as much as you can. Once you know what you're doing, THEN look.

tiemetighterplz -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/26/2013 7:51:57 AM)
i need help in accessing a link that i think ive been viewed on! ouch!

EsotericLady -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/26/2013 1:26:40 PM)
OMG! You're cheap, Lookie! Actually, I have never expected nor asked someone to relocate for me. I believe that would be expecting an awfully lot should I ask someone. (I am NOT saying it would be for someone ELSE to ask someone!) And I haven't relocated for someone. My lifestyle is too unique to give up! quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: Crouchingtiger77 I am not new to bdsm having a profile on another popular site but this site seems to be willed filled with profiles of slaves who seem maybe a bit too good to be true. It isn't just their photos but that all they need to relocate is say $100 or $200 and they will come and submit as a slave to a man or woman as the case may be sight before unseen. I prefer the ones that mandate $475 for relocation, so long as they offer a used Vega Station wagon in trade. (But that's just my submissive side coming out). quote: Yep

DesFIP -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/26/2013 4:31:38 PM)
Would you really even want such a person? Someone who didn't care if she even enjoyed talking to you, let alone having sex with you? As long as she got a couple hundred bucks and a new place to say? Doesn't matter if she calls herself a slave or a sandwich, if you're going to be with someone, you had better like each other and be friends first. And yes, they're all scammers.

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/26/2013 7:04:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Crouchingtiger77 I am not new to bdsm having a profile on another popular site You've gotten some good answers here and seem to understand them. I kind of have to wonder though, do you think that simply having a profile on another popular site makes you an experienced BDSM veteran? I do not mean this in a snarky way. But, unless you've been physically involved in BDSM, had actual hands on experience, you ARE new to BDSM. Particularly if you proclaim yourself a dominant. Again, I do not intend to insult you here. Your profile does not give any idea of what your BDSM interests are, besides a "young woman." My advice is that when you get back to the states, since you will have the freedom to choose where you want to live, live in or close to a major city. Join the local, real life community there and go to as many events as you can. Find people with experience at the things that interest you and learn from them. And don't fixate on the "young" women.

Crouchingtiger77 -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/27/2013 9:57:09 AM)
Hello Harry I am in process of changing my profile and I have had past D's relationship. In fact, I am now back state side in the state of Iowa. I tried to click on your profile so as to e mail you privately about this. Came up with no profile. Thanks for your posting. And don't worry about insulting me. Perhaps that is possible but when you've seen things which are about survival in inner China, then an insult on collarme or that other site is nothing. Again, as i mentioned in private e mail to a couple of other posterers, I could have posted the question a bit better to leave out the ambiguity perhaps either through individual perceptions or my bad grammar. I did say in my profile, and am going to change a bit " I am well educated " I will or need to change to "I received opportunity for a good education and did obtain a degree in higher learning. However, I have never been good in English grammar and that probably will not improve now at my stately age of 62." that is just a side note to you but now everyone will see it. Oh well. One needs to be an open book . But, I can write, read and speak Chinese at a decent level. That means, survival level. There I kidnapped this thread. Oh well Cheers Tiger

LadyPact -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/27/2013 11:09:54 AM)
http://www.collarme.com/personals/scammers.htm Scam #3 - I need money for travel expenses (airfare, gasoline, etc.) If you plan on meeting a user who'll be traveling to you from a distant location, think long and hard before sending them money for their travel expenses. Unlike some other scams, these scammers may be completely honest about their gender and appearance, show themselves to you on webcam, and talk to you for weeks. Neverthless, once your money is sent, they'll disappear, never to be seen again. If you wish to reimburse visitors for travel expenses, the safest approach is to do so upon their arrival. Be particularly wary of anyone who asks you to send them money via Western Union, Cashier's Check, or MoneyGram. Remember, the moment you send money to a stranger may also be the last moment that you see or hear from the stranger or your money again.

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/27/2013 11:39:13 AM)
@Crouchingtiger77 Thanks for telling me my profile isn't working. I've been getting to wonder about that due to the lack of activity. I've had that problem here before and don't remember how it got fixed. I do remember writing to CM and never getting any response. I don't mean to hijack your thread but does anybody want to clue me in on fixing it?

littlewonder -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/27/2013 12:13:10 PM)
go to your profile. Unhide your profile.

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/27/2013 2:11:03 PM)
@littlewonder Thank you. It wasn't hidden in the first place. I hid it, then checked to see that I couldn't see it, unhid it and checked to see that it's not hidden. It IS not hidden now. Can anybody see it?

lizi -> RE: About Certain Slaves and their profiles (1/27/2013 2:12:05 PM)
I cannot see it now.

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