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DaddySatyr -> RE: Living a lie (1/26/2013 8:27:36 AM)
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Also, if you go over some of the older threads of a similar nature, you will find that what LaTigresse says is absolutely true ... if you have a penis.
Females that come to these boards with a similar complaint tend to get similar advice but it is delivered much more gingerly.
Truth is; if you're doing something behind your partner's back, you should be ashamed. If you're not ashamed, I don't see why anyone would want to partner up with someone that has no conscience.
So, I understand that you're in a bind and that you came here for advice so, here's the best advice I can give you: try to look around (I believe there may even be an appropriate link, here abouts) and find a kink-friendly couples counselor.
Is the issue that your wife is not willing to enter into this lifestyle? That may present even more problems. Like it or not, you will have to balance your desire (mark that word well, please) for kink against what your marriage means to you.
It is a difficult place that you're in and I can relate (to a degree), based upon my own past.
I hope you find the moral integrity to make the correct choice and the personal strength to carry it through.
Peace and comfort,
Michael
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