LdyViolet -> RE: IF they were kinky, what would they be? (1/27/2013 1:55:12 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LdyViolet Just to clarify a little better, I meant people you know, not necessarily just family members... and I only look at if they would be more Dominant or submissive in a relationship, not the sexual aspect. I don't do this. I believe a lot of the time I'd be dead wrong. I use myself as a case in point. I can almost guarantee that nobody in my regular life would put me on the submissive side if they thought about it. In my vanilla world, I just don't come across that way. Interesting question though. :) I'm only saying that I think a lot of times, the guesses would be really... wrong. That sounds familiar. I'm usually fairly quiet and easy going, probably seem more submissive if not just vanilla. It was funny when I discovered last summer a coworker of mine is a Dom. He's very experienced, been in the lifestyle 20+ yrs and has given lectures and taught classes on various things. He was shocked to find out I even knew anything about bdsm.. then even more shocked when I said I was dominant. I almost had to pick his jaw up off the table for him lol. He's since become a bit of a mentor, and refuses to give up on making me submit to him... all in fun of course.
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