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AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Playing with switches (1/29/2013 10:28:28 AM)

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This is an interesting thread. That is all.




egern -> RE: Playing with switches (1/29/2013 3:38:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle
I find it interesting how many submissive say they wouldn't submit to a switch because they're not able to top and wouldn't be able to fill the needs of her other side, so to speak. What makes you think she would want YOU to take care of that need?

I've also noticed that a lot of dominant women say they are NOT interested in switches because sooner or later the switch will want to dominate them. What makes you believe that?



I haven't come across that myself, more like if you are a switch, you are not a real whatever.

I think maybe one problem is that while 'sub' or 'dom' can be varied, it does not vary anything as much as being a 'switch'.

You can be one who switches in the middle of a scene, one who was a sub ages ago and is now a dom or vice versa, you can be a domme/switch or a sub/domme, meaning what is most pronounced in your profile. You can switch according to gender, never sub to a male or a female or whatever, you can be one who has only one role in any relationship.

Maybe this rich variation can make some people uncertain?




ServiceBoy89 -> RE: Playing with switches (1/29/2013 4:31:37 PM)

It will be very inerersting to collar dominant woman.I wonder how it will be to crash her pride.My evil dominant side of me is excited.:D

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TheLilSquaw -> RE: Playing with switches (1/29/2013 4:37:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ServiceBoy89

It will be very inerersting to collar dominant woman.I wonder how it will be to crash her pride.My evil dominant side of me is excited:D


Huh?
So you want to collar someone, specifically a dominant woman to destroy her pride?

[8|]





ServiceBoy89 -> RE: Playing with switches (1/29/2013 4:50:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

quote:

ORIGINAL: ServiceBoy89

It will be very inerersting to collar dominant woman.I wonder how it will be to crash her pride.My evil dominant side of me is excited:D


Huh?
So you want to collar someone, specifically a dominant woman to destroy her pride?

[8|]




It was a joke.But it really will be fun to put her on her knees.If I break her after that is easy.I can do watever I want [sm=imking.gif] .Want to tickle her to dead.:P




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Playing with switches (1/29/2013 5:59:48 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

quote:

ORIGINAL: ServiceBoy89

It will be very inerersting to collar dominant woman.I wonder how it will be to crash her pride.My evil dominant side of me is excited:D


Huh?
So you want to collar someone, specifically a dominant woman to destroy her pride?

[8|]

That sounds like the mark of an A-hole to me.

NBMG




MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Playing with switches (1/29/2013 6:30:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ServiceBoy89

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

quote:

ORIGINAL: ServiceBoy89

It will be very inerersting to collar dominant woman.I wonder how it will be to crash her pride.My evil dominant side of me is excited:D


Huh?
So you want to collar someone, specifically a dominant woman to destroy her pride?

[8|]




It was a joke.But it really will be fun to put her on her knees.If I break her after that is easy.I can do watever I want [sm=imking.gif] .Want to tickle her to dead.:P


Sooooo, you think ATTACKING someone and FORCING them to do something AGAINST THEIR WILL by simply overpowering them is what being a DOMINANT is about? What you describe is RAPIST mentality. So, you are a RAPIST, plain and simple. If there is no sexual assault then still YOU ARE NO DIFFERENT THAN ANY BIG DUMB ANIMAL (horse, dog, bull, elephant, etc, etc, etc) that turns on it's handler. (and guess what we do with those!)

YOU HAVE MUCH TO LEARN ABOUT WHAT DOMINANCE ENTAILS. Right now you are trying to show off how VIOLENT you can be...yeah, we get it...you're a misogynistic psychopath who has Mommy issues he wants to get out of his system...and any female stupid enough to Play with you ALONE after reading your post is a fucking idiot.

READ: Interactions should be SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL


Idiots like you are why I don't play with switches. You give switches a bad name. Every single switch I've interviewed for My group over the years has voiced urges like this, because they think EVERYONE can switch, which is definitely NOT the case, and I consider it a SAFETY CONCERN, not just for Me but for My other subs. As a result I no longer consider switches as an option, and since subs are so plentiful, I don't NEED to resort to considering switches.

If someone else wants to switch back and forth, let THEM take the switches, then it's a happy, healthy situation.

For Me it's entirely black and white, I DO NOT SUB, PERIOD, and I do not allow any of My subs to dominate the others, because I AM THE ONE RESPONSIBLE for their safety. And YES, I have actually SPOKEN with a Domme who got Her BACK BROKEN by a so-called "sub" who was actually a switch and suddenly in the middle of a Play session decided he wanted to be "dominant" even though She wasn't consenting to it.

Switches with EXPERIENCE and UNDERSTANDING of D/s dynamics on the other hand are fine...I'm friends with a few *waves hello*...but like I said they wouldn't fit into My group. My subs wouldn't put up with a switch either.

--MM




ServiceBoy89 -> RE: Playing with switches (1/29/2013 7:16:37 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS

quote:

ORIGINAL: ServiceBoy89

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

quote:

ORIGINAL: ServiceBoy89

It will be very inerersting to collar dominant woman.I wonder how it will be to crash her pride.My evil dominant side of me is excited:D


Huh?
So you want to collar someone, specifically a dominant woman to destroy her pride?

[8|]




It was a joke.But it really will be fun to put her on her knees.If I break her after that is easy.I can do watever I want [sm=imking.gif] .Want to tickle her to dead.:P


Sooooo, you think ATTACKING someone and FORCING them to do something AGAINST THEIR WILL by simply overpowering them is what being a DOMINANT is about? What you describe is RAPIST mentality. So, you are a RAPIST, plain and simple. If there is no sexual assault then still YOU ARE NO DIFFERENT THAN ANY BIG DUMB ANIMAL (horse, dog, bull, elephant, etc, etc, etc) that turns on it's handler. (and guess what we do with those!)

YOU HAVE MUCH TO LEARN ABOUT WHAT DOMINANCE ENTAILS. Right now you are trying to show off how VIOLENT you can be...yeah, we get it...you're a misogynistic psychopath who has Mommy issues he wants to get out of his system...and any female stupid enough to Play with you ALONE after reading your post is a fucking idiot.

READ: Interactions should be SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL


Idiots like you are why I don't play with switches. You give switches a bad name. Every single switch I've interviewed for My group over the years has voiced urges like this, because they think EVERYONE can switch, which is definitely NOT the case, and I consider it a SAFETY CONCERN, not just for Me but for My other subs. As a result I no longer consider switches as an option, and since subs are so plentiful, I don't NEED to resort to considering switches.

If someone else wants to switch back and forth, let THEM take the switches, then it's a happy, healthy situation.

For Me it's entirely black and white, I DO NOT SUB, PERIOD, and I do not allow any of My subs to dominate the others, because I AM THE ONE RESPONSIBLE for their safety. And YES, I have actually SPOKEN with a Domme who got Her BACK BROKEN by a so-called "sub" who was actually a switch and suddenly in the middle of a Play session decided he wanted to be "dominant" even though She wasn't consenting to it.

Switches with EXPERIENCE and UNDERSTANDING of D/s dynamics on the other hand are fine...I'm friends with a few *waves hello*...but like I said they wouldn't fit into My group. My subs wouldn't put up with a switch either.

--MM



If she wants to play with me Okey.I can't do anything against her will.Only if she want to try this is it.Lol you write like I'am the most evil rapist man on the planet.I like and respect women and "misogynistic psychopath" is totally unknown for me.But you are the person who don't undersand here.It is rude to call me idiot when you don't know anything about me,My IQ is above the avarage but wataver.Do you see me to write someone that all dominant women can be and submassive?Honesly I just give my opinion and I won't changed it.And I'am proud to be a swich.
I'am extremely careful for the sefaty on the person.When I'am dominant always ask about fetishes and the limits of my slave.And try to give the best.I'am not into masochism,piercings,blood or hardcore fetishs.Mainly body worship and role playing.It is bed to hear that her slave broke her back.But and a lot of dominant women hurt their slaves and they have,scars and even one of the mistress here write that one of her friend slave pass away during a session from allergy to latex.Like I say I prefer safe play.




ServiceBoy89 -> RE: Playing with switches (1/29/2013 7:29:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

quote:

ORIGINAL: ServiceBoy89

It will be very inerersting to collar dominant woman.I wonder how it will be to crash her pride.My evil dominant side of me is excited:D


Huh?
So you want to collar someone, specifically a dominant woman to destroy her pride?

[8|]

That sounds like the mark of an A-hole to me.

NBMG



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NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Playing with switches (1/29/2013 7:32:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ServiceBoy89
[image]http://store.picbg.net/pubpic/95/2E/c96f02af42c8952e.jpg[/image]

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Thanks for the laugh!

NBMG




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