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Responding to a profile which informs prospective users... - 1/28/2013 12:00:04 AM   
Cilicia


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Status: offline 		A profile which appeals to me suggests, verbatim
quote:

Applicants must provide own containment device, subject to my inspection and approval.


What strikes me about that statement is the multiple allure of "being an applicant" subject to "personal inspection", hoping to please, of course, and then, what gets me thinking, were I to respond, is what would be a suitable containment device?

Of course, googling finds me scores of cock cage chastity devices, many of which are ornately elegant - but - I digress because if this were a quest for the device itself, I would be discussing the likes of www.chastitybeltformen.com on the "bondage gear and apparel" forum.

No, this is not an equipment post. It's a post asking for suggestions on how to best understand the needs (hence to better be able to please) an obviously erudite woman who specifically requests her prospective play partners be "chastised", so to speak.

Simply stated, what would YOU mentally get out of having a submissively obedient play partner arrive in chastity attire suitable to meet your approval?
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RE: Responding to a profile which informs prospective u... - 1/28/2013 12:08:54 AM   
TAFKAA


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Status: offline 		Dude, this belongs in "Ask a Mistress".

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RE: Responding to a profile which informs prospective u... - 1/28/2013 1:51:03 AM   
asiansubmissie


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Status: offline 		And all this time I had thought this was a thread about a Mistress requiring prospective users to wear a suit.

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RE: Responding to a profile which informs prospective u... - 1/28/2013 3:34:31 AM   
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RE: Responding to a profile which informs prospective u... - 1/28/2013 5:50:47 AM   
TheLilSquaw


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TAFKAA

Dude, this belongs in "Ask a Mistress".



It is a BDSM topic so why wouldn't it be long on the general board?



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RE: Responding to a profile which informs prospective u... - 1/28/2013 7:12:14 AM   
poise


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To really impress her, you should go the Iron Man route!


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RE: Responding to a profile which informs prospective u... - 1/28/2013 7:35:17 AM   
masmiss


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quote:

Simply stated, what would YOU mentally get out of having a submissively obedient play partner arrive in chastity attire suitable to meet your approval?


Nothing. I prefer to meet someone in a vanilla manner, in a public place with him dressed neatly and well-groomed.
Also, I don't refer to prospective submissives as "applicants". I'm not interviewing him for a job. He's a potential relationship partner.

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RE: Responding to a profile which informs prospective u... - 1/28/2013 10:06:42 AM   
HarryVanWinkle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Cilicia

A profile which appeals to me suggests, verbatim
quote:

Applicants must provide own containment device, subject to my inspection and approval.


What strikes me about that statement is the multiple allure of "being an applicant" subject to "personal inspection", hoping to please, of course, and then, what gets me thinking, were I to respond, is what would be a suitable containment device?

Of course, googling finds me scores of cock cage chastity devices, many of which are ornately elegant - but - I digress because if this were a quest for the device itself, I would be discussing the likes of www.chastitybeltformen.com on the "bondage gear and apparel" forum.

No, this is not an equipment post. It's a post asking for suggestions on how to best understand the needs (hence to better be able to please) an obviously erudite woman who specifically requests her prospective play partners be "chastised", so to speak.

Simply stated, what would YOU mentally get out of having a submissively obedient play partner arrive in chastity attire suitable to meet your approval?



What does it matter what anybody here would get out of it. Seems to me, this question is one you should ask the prospective play partner. Her answer is the only one that matters.

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RE: Responding to a profile which informs prospective u... - 1/28/2013 1:11:08 PM   
ClassAct2006


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Status: offline 		Dominant men in good suits mmmmmmm sexy... alpha male, power, money and must wear cufflinks to work in the ordinary course... very good filter of those suitable from the alsorans, although not an absolute requirement.

Yes, so I was also surprised to read the rest of the thread.

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RE: Responding to a profile which informs prospective u... - 1/28/2013 4:34:01 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Master would look at me and say "Who the hell gave you permission to put that on????"

If I saw a website that said to provide my own containment, whatever the hell that is, or was expecting to play on the first meet, sight unseen, I would roll my eyes and move onto the next profile.



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RE: Responding to a profile which informs prospective u... - 1/31/2013 7:18:17 AM   
littleone14


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quote:

ORIGINAL: masmiss


Nothing. I prefer to meet someone in a vanilla manner, in a public place with him dressed neatly and well-groomed.



Exactly why she requires him to wear a suit. Oh, wait, that's not what this is about.......

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