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subbslutt -> looking...... (1/28/2013 8:51:50 AM)
What is the best way to go about finding a new master?

OsideGirl -> RE: looking...... (1/28/2013 9:01:51 AM)
Get out to your local community. Meet people, talk to people, get to know people. It's no different than finding a vanilla partner.

Thaz -> RE: looking...... (1/28/2013 10:34:18 AM)
Seeing your looking for online (assuming thats still the case) try browsing the forums here for folks who show the ability to actualy comunicate online. Essentialy the same advice as OG just gave, get out there and meet folks, interact first and see if then if you're intrested in each other.

LadyPact -> RE: looking...... (1/28/2013 12:18:41 PM)
How did you find the last one? If whatever that was worked before, there's a good chance it will work again.

kiwisub12 -> RE: looking...... (1/28/2013 1:13:59 PM)
go to Target, ask for the new Master aisle. Easy! [:D] or you could do it the old fashion way - going to munches, joining local communities and putting ads on relationship sites. worked for me.

myotherself -> RE: looking...... (1/28/2013 2:01:41 PM)
Be honest. Be choosy. Think with your brain, not your tingly bits.

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: looking...... (1/28/2013 2:08:29 PM)
According to your profile, you want a cyber-master. Write out your favorite fantasy. Make it detailed and make it hot. Then use spell check and try to make sure it doesn't have too many grammatical errors. Then start looking through the profiles of dominant men here. When you find one who appeals to you, write him a letter, talking about at least some of what he mentions in his profile. Then copy and paste your fantasy to it and send it. If you decide you want a real time master, do what OsideGirl said.

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: looking...... (1/28/2013 2:56:03 PM)
I think you have to go into an AOL chat room. Kneelat the "entrance" and beg for permission to enter. The rest is still a mystery. I think ther is a secret "hand" shake and paperwork in triplicate that has to be filled out as well.

Toysinbabeland -> RE: looking...... (1/28/2013 3:15:05 PM)
Wear a choker in public. You'll get a nice smile from those in the know. It's a nice ice breaker.

littlewonder -> RE: looking...... (1/28/2013 4:55:15 PM)
How did you go about finding dates before you discovered wanting a "Master"? It's exactly the same way. Just because you call it bdsm does not make the situation any different.

Aubrik -> RE: looking...... (3/16/2013 12:08:44 AM)
As everyone above has already posted, meeting new people at events goes a long way. If you have the patience this site does actually work as I am currently in a relationship that started here. There is alot of sorting and sifting required to get to the true and honest profiles, but it is worth the effort. Most importantly the best advice I can give you is to take your time and not jump head first into anything, especially if it is someone that you only know virtually. Aub

LillyBoPeep -> RE: looking...... (3/18/2013 8:24:57 PM)
+1, myotherself ^_^ Don't jump after the first guy to pay attention to you. =p And don't necessarily expect that that person will be found at a local event. Just try to meet people you can really be yourself with and get along with. That goes a long way. Be honest with yourself, and be smart. Don't forget that the same rules apply here as in the vanilla world. And don't expect it to happen overnight. It might take years. At this point, I'm honestly not expecting to meet anyone new. And I think that's totally okay.

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: looking...... (3/19/2013 12:03:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle According to your profile, you want a cyber-master. Write out your favorite fantasy. Make it detailed and make it hot. Then use spell check and try to make sure it doesn't have too many grammatical errors. Then start looking through the profiles of dominant men here. When you find one who appeals to you, write him a letter, talking about at least some of what he mentions in his profile. Then copy and paste your fantasy to it and send it. If you decide you want a real time master, do what OsideGirl said. This. You're looking for a cyber-dom, you can barely breathe for them on the internet. Pick a profile that takes your interest, and get in touch. I'd be inclined to say that you probably don't even need to worry about what's in his profile or proper grammar, since there will be so many people falling over themselves to swap photos and cyber with you. (Sorry for being cynical there, and obviously you will get what you pay for in terms of effort) PS. I'm sure you already know but just in case - webcams can be recorded very easily and get posted on free porn sites all of the time. Don't do anything on cam, or give out any photos that you aren't happy with being plastered over the internet forever. As a group, people looking for cyber-only relationships with young females are not the most ethical of people, and you don't want a wank video to come back and ruin things for you in seven years when you decide you want to be a teacher/political candidate/foster parent/nun.

JeffBC -> RE: looking...... (3/19/2013 7:56:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders This. You're looking for a cyber-dom, you can barely breathe for them on the internet. And Athena is also correct, you really shouldn't trust them very far. I'm not suggesting that all guys who have a pixel-slave are bad people. It seems to have happened to me just recently and I like to think of myself as a decent guy. But you can't know that. You can't know this other person that you've never met. So try to remember that and measure your trust out accordingly.

Kana -> RE: looking...... (3/19/2013 1:51:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subbslutt What is the best way to go about finding a new master? Become a phenomenal cock sucker

mnottertail -> RE: looking...... (3/19/2013 1:52:28 PM)
Word.

Kana -> RE: looking...... (3/19/2013 2:19:52 PM)
I was thinking of you when I wrote that, Ron

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