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Lookin4Lace -> RE: How much energy do you invest evaluating a provocatively kinky CM profile PRIOR to responding? (5/14/2016 9:24:38 AM)
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Hello all, I normally don't chime in on message boards but this topic came up while i perusing another topic and figured it might be worth investing my time in reading, after much reading of both sides those that do and those that don't, the know how-to's and the ones who don't care to, I felt it was about time i got off my duff and posted, so here are my thoughts on the topic\
In this day and age there is something to be said for taking the time to know someone before meeting with them, granted we are all consenting adults here, but in reality IMO, it just makes sense.
when i am approached by a potential candidate, i observe how they handle themselves, I look at their profile, read their journal entries, view their pics, and ofcourse i check here as well, however i have found that even those that are being truthful can also be fake as well, not on this website as of yet, but one i was in about a month ago seemed perfect and met my needs everything i listed above checked out and her and I started talking via exchanged cell numbers, and then on a whim she asked me to install Skype so that i could get an actual visual of her, now I'm looking for LTR and i thought that would of been covered when we met however that's when i thought to myself this would be a good time to do a backwards IP scan, for me this is nothing more then a little hobby of mine but when i found that her IP originated from mainland China, that is when i just cut to the chase and asked her about it, and she verified that she was indeed living in China and not 7 miles away from me.
This may not be uncommon but for my lifestyle and who I am, it works for me its not paranoia it is just being cautious and informed
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