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Question? - 1/29/2013 3:02:14 AM   
newgsusub


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Status: offline 		Is the reason no one on CM talks to me because I don't post? I've read somewhere that if u didn't have any posts ppl on here would think ur a fake. Is that true
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RE: Question? - 1/29/2013 3:08:26 AM   
MissBlueangel


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Status: offline 		I dont post much but do read the boards and from what I can see the two sides of CM are quite separate. So posting or not has little to do with whether people chat on the other side.
I know I get lots of messages from people responding to my journal which I add to fairly regularly. Maybe try writing something

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RE: Question? - 1/29/2013 3:11:06 AM   
Kaliko


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissBlueangel

I know I get lots of messages from people responding to my journal which I add to fairly regularly. Maybe try writing something


That's a good idea. When my profile was active, once I made a journal entry (a meaningful one), I got responses from a whole different set of people.

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RE: Question? - 1/29/2013 3:20:24 AM   
ARIES83


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Status: offline 		I don't think so, I had a look at your profile and
nothing stood out as bad, but you don't say much
about yourself other than your looking for a
mistress and said mistress must not have a penis.

Try adding a bit about what you like, what your like.
What things do you find attractive in a partner,
besides a lack of sausage, what do you do for fun?

The checklist of likes and dislikes isn't a good
substitute for a well written intro.

There was just a thread about writing profiles
actually!

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4363580/tm.htm

There ya go, it has a bit of good advice towards the
middle.


< Message edited by ARIES83 -- 1/29/2013 3:22:31 AM >

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RE: Question? - 1/29/2013 3:34:14 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		I post a lot and I still get called a fake

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RE: Question? - 1/29/2013 4:42:20 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: newgsusub

Is the reason no one on CM talks to me because I don't post? I've read somewhere that if u didn't have any posts ppl on here would think ur a fake. Is that true

quote:

I post a lot and I still get called a fake


What do you mean by "talking to you"? Initiating conversations or responding to you?

If you mean your target audience, I suspect there aren't any lesbian Dommes. Do you mean just casual conversation with anyone?

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RE: Question? - 1/29/2013 1:09:10 PM   
wannapleez


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
What do you mean by "talking to you"? Initiating conversations or responding to you?


Exactly. Since posting more regularly, I've gotten a big spike in "Who's Viewing Me". While some of them are just wondering, "who is this fucker?", a few have taken the time to write emails, too. Granted, no one that is physically near me, so not anyone that I'm "seeking" in that sense. But good conversations.

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RE: Question? - 1/29/2013 7:23:31 PM   
TheLilSquaw


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quote:

ORIGINAL: newgsusub

Is the reason no one on CM talks to me because I don't post? I've read somewhere that if u didn't have any posts ppl on here would think ur a fake. Is that true



It's more likely because your profile doesn't say anything about you or the type of woman you are looking for beyond dominant.

Although I do talk to some folks from the forums on the other side, they are not the majority of my interactions on the other side.

Yes, people are always accusing others of being "fake".

Good luck!

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RE: Question? - 1/29/2013 8:11:24 PM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		We are all fake here.

But I agree, maybe tweak your profile a bit.

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RE: Question? - 1/29/2013 9:04:49 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: newgsusub

Is the reason no one on CM talks to me because I don't post? I've read somewhere that if u didn't have any posts ppl on here would think ur a fake. Is that true


Nobody sends you email? I'm kind of surprised to hear that. I realize that you're here looking for a woman; I got that from looking at your profile. But, I've always heard that any woman who makes profile here is instantly inundated with emails, most of them rude, from Horny Net Geeks.

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RE: Question? - 1/29/2013 9:20:43 PM   
Notsweet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: newgsusub

Is the reason no one on CM talks to me because I don't post? I've read somewhere that if u didn't have any posts ppl on here would think ur a fake. Is that true


I don't know why they don't talk to you, but you are as cute as you can be. Put a little more in your profile.

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RE: Question? - 1/29/2013 9:31:12 PM   
MAINEiacMISTRESS


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quote:

ORIGINAL: newgsusub

Is the reason no one on CM talks to me because I don't post? I've read somewhere that if u didn't have any posts ppl on here would think ur a fake. Is that true


You have a nice photo and a lovely, friendly smile, I'm surprised you don't get approached.

Hmmmm....try writing more about your vanilla interests.

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RE: Question? - 1/30/2013 8:29:17 AM   
Nelee


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Status: offline 		Definitively put more about yourself in your profile when you can. If I were a domme, I would probably pass you over because I had no idea how you are or what you're interested in.

Other than that, it's always good to participate in the forums if you'd like :)

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RE: Question? - 1/30/2013 8:34:47 AM   
Servant4Queen


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quote:

ORIGINAL: newgsusub

Is the reason no one on CM talks to me because I don't post? I've read somewhere that if u didn't have any posts ppl on here would think ur a fake. Is that true



FINALLY! Finally you posted. Now I can talk with you ! :)

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RE: Question? - 1/30/2013 7:14:06 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		No matter whether you post here or not, won't make a difference. You're new here. The first few months, everyone will tell you you are a fake. Delete, move on.


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RE: Question? - 1/31/2013 6:23:00 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Servant4Queen


quote:

ORIGINAL: newgsusub

Is the reason no one on CM talks to me because I don't post? I've read somewhere that if u didn't have any posts ppl on here would think ur a fake. Is that true



FINALLY! Finally you posted. Now I can talk with you ! :)


@Servant4Queen

So, have you done your CM male subly duty, send her a message begging her to be your mistress, then after she responded telling you she's not looking for men, told her that's only because she's never had a man like you, then when she still wasn't interested, sent her a letter full of foul invective, accusing her of being a fake and a man masquerading as a woman?

Or have you done the usual and left all the work to me.

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RE: Question? - 1/31/2013 6:41:02 PM   
ServosCor


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Status: offline 		    Hi Newgsusub! 

                 I think there are so many people on this site many get lost in the shuffle so you need to make yourself known here.  I get alot of emails, but then I send a good number also.  Anyone with an animal in their profile pic is fair game in my book!  <G>   I just love puppies, kittens, horses, etc .......

                 Anyway doll.........welcome to boards and hope to hear more from you!

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RE: Question? - 1/31/2013 6:42:11 PM   
ServosCor


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Status: offline 		  OH DAMN..........forgot to mention BUNNIES AND MICE   <G>

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RE: Question? - 2/1/2013 5:32:05 AM   
asub2b4u


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Status: offline 		not sure at all, but posting now just in case to better my odds

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RE: Question? - 2/8/2013 4:20:16 AM   
DaisyDew


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Status: offline 		Try adding a bit about what you like, what your like.
What things do you find attractive in a partner,
besides a lack of sausage, what do you do for fun?

Shouldn't that be you're (conjunction for 'you are') like?

I agree with the general consensus that writing your journal will get you more attention.
Good luck...

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