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Submissive looking to submit - 2/1/2013 7:47:35 PM

sissysteven

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Hello everyone. I'm a male who has been lying to him self for so long... I have upheld a dominant personality infront of so many people. But deep down I've always wanted one of my girlfriends to get pissed of or annoyed enough to take control of me and be the dominant one. I've had 2 or 3 girlfriends that have cross dressed me or shown me the ropes. but no one who truly likes to use me the way I want to be used. So I'm here taking my time looking for a dominant girl.

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RE: Submissive looking to submit - 2/1/2013 8:09:45 PM

poise

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Welcome to the message board, Steven. In most cases, a dominant will use you as they want to use you,
not the other way around. If you're wanting to call the shots on kinky play, that's more like bottoming than submitting.
Stick around and join in on some of the conversations. Lot's can be learned by participating here.

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RE: Submissive looking to submit - 2/2/2013 3:08:41 AM

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Welcome To CM

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RE: Submissive looking to submit - 2/2/2013 4:08:58 AM

DarkSteven

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Hi, steven.

There's no need for a woman to get pissed off or annoyed with you to take control. As a matter of fact, that's not a healthy dynamic, for a Dom/me to be pissed at a sub.

I suggest you search for the term "funishment", which is what I suspect you want.

Welcome to the site.

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RE: Submissive looking to submit - 2/2/2013 10:31:34 AM

TheLilSquaw

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Welcome to the forums.

Sounds like your like a power struggle and funishment.

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