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MrCaneSevere -> Male 2 Male (2/3/2013 11:39:13 AM)

What qualities and questions should i Ask a potential male to punish......




OsideGirl -> RE: Male 2 Male (2/3/2013 11:48:31 AM)

If you're just looking for someone to have "funishment" sessions with, then you would negotiate the scene. You need to know likes, dislikes, limits, safe word and health issues.




DarkSteven -> RE: Male 2 Male (2/3/2013 12:01:45 PM)

Are you looking for a session, a series of sessions, a relationship...?




MrCaneSevere -> RE: Male 2 Male (2/3/2013 12:24:05 PM)

no this is more of a serious caning for a male




DarkSteven -> RE: Male 2 Male (2/3/2013 2:26:45 PM)

Perhaps I didn't word that properly. Is this:

A single caning SESSION,
A series of caning SESSIONS,
Or a caning RELATIONSHIP?

In the event that it's a one-off session, then the questions you should ask are:

What is the punishment for,
Will there be a safeword,
Does the other wish to be restrained,
Has he been caned before,

Stuff like that.




LadyPact -> RE: Male 2 Male (2/3/2013 4:03:17 PM)

To punish?

Why did the disobedience happen?

Did you not understand the rule to cause you to have the infraction?

Have I not made the expectation clear?

Do you have a hard limit or issue that prevents My instructions to be carried out?



Sorry, I guess I just take actual punishment more seriously than you do.





HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Male 2 Male (2/4/2013 3:36:45 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MrCaneSevere

What qualities and questions should i Ask a potential male to punish......


quote:

ORIGINAL: MrCaneSevere

no this is more of a serious caning for a male


My recommendation would be to first learn to understand that your wants can't really be understood from a couple of single sentences. The beauty of writing is that you can sit down, think and take all the time in the world to figure out how to express yourself.




kiwisub12 -> RE: Male 2 Male (2/4/2013 3:55:43 PM)

Have to admit - the first post was unintelligible.




DesFIP -> RE: Male 2 Male (2/4/2013 9:07:04 PM)

If he's just some guy you're talking to, and you're not yet in a relationship with him, then you don't have the authority to punish him.

Once you are in a relationship, and assuming the rules you've given are reasonable and doable, plus you've given him a learning curve in order to accomplish them, then you need to ask why he broke the rule, was there any conflict that prevented him from following it, and what help he needs to do better in the future.





MrCaneSevere -> RE: Male 2 Male (2/6/2013 3:47:10 PM)

I am going to punish a male to clarify your quote...........




DarkSteven -> RE: Male 2 Male (2/6/2013 4:13:54 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MrCaneSevere

I am going to punish a male to clarify your quote...........


Let me translate:

"To answer your quote: to clarify, I will be punishing a male."

Which we already knew. Seriously, fella, I'd suggest some kind of basic course in business communication. Your writing is dang near incomprehensible, and you're evidently not able to read our comments either.





LafayetteLady -> RE: Male 2 Male (2/6/2013 4:19:51 PM)

Based on the little information you have given, you aren't really going to "punish" anyone. You are looking to have a scene with a yet unknown partner and want to know what qualities you should look for and questions you should ask the potential males that would agree to this scene.

In my opinion, if you are planning on giving a "serious caning" to someone and don't know what qualities the person should have or questions you ask to find out whether or not they are an acceptable person to scene with, then you aren't ready to give a "serious caning" to anyone.

And yes, your ability to communicate needs some serious work. Perhaps you should find someone to punish you with a serious caning so that you improve on that....




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