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Looking for a real Domme, who isnt just in it for the m... - 2/3/2013 11:51:42 AM

dommelover1832

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Hi there,

I am a submissive male and I find it quite disheartening searching through all the dominant females only to find that many of them are clearly just in it for the money, and I don't mean professional domination services. Does anyone know an effective way to contact dominant women while excluding the financial dommes?

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RE: Looking for a real Domme, who isnt just in it for t... - 2/3/2013 11:57:34 AM

DarkSteven

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Well, lemme ask you a question. Since Dommes have so many sub men vying for their attention, why would any of them express interest in one who has a blank profile?

Try to write a profile that shows you as an engaging young man.

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RE: Looking for a real Domme, who isnt just in it for t... - 2/3/2013 12:08:08 PM

dommelover1832

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Thanks for the tips I have been meaning to update the profile since I joined, I will update the text fields now but I think I will upload a photo at a later date though

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RE: Looking for a real Domme, who isnt just in it for t... - 2/3/2013 12:15:01 PM

Baroana

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I'm just in it for the money.

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RE: Looking for a real Domme, who isnt just in it for t... - 2/3/2013 2:25:59 PM

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Given your age of 24, I assume you are looking for someone around the same age. Sadly, that means that you have an inordinate amount of young women who do think this is an easy way to make a buck. There are women your age who don't, they just are more difficult to find.

The only suggestion I can give you is that as you read through profiles looking for the right one, hide each that you find is mainly financially oriented. Yes, it will be time consuming, but finding the right person for you takes work.

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RE: Looking for a real Domme, who isnt just in it for t... - 2/3/2013 2:48:06 PM

dommelover1832

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Hi, thanks for the comment, it seems sensible. I do have a slight bias towards women my age but I am also open to those a bit older provided there is still a physical attraction.

I agree it is worth it if I end up finding the correct person and I will continue to utilise the approach you suggested

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RE: Looking for a real Domme, who isnt just in it for t... - 2/3/2013 2:53:48 PM

LafayetteLady

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You are quite welcome.

When thinking on the "bit older" aspect, it all depends on what you hope to get from the relationship. If you are looking longterm (as in lifetime commitment), and you someday hope to have a family with this person, sometimes older isn't feasible. I know I'm MUCH older, rather than a bit, but even just ten years older, and the woman may already have had children and not want any more.

On the other hand, if you are looking for something just for now, then older doesn't matter if you can both get what you want out of it.

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RE: Looking for a real Domme, who isnt just in it for t... - 2/4/2013 7:47:51 AM

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Welcome To CM

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RE: Looking for a real Domme, who isnt just in it for t... - 2/4/2013 1:37:53 PM

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Welcome dommelover....enjoy your stay here!

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RE: Looking for a real Domme, who isnt just in it for t... - 2/7/2013 6:11:37 AM

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I agree..very disappointed in many Dommes here who do not even bother to reply to messages, or are just plain rude when they do. The polite word "tribute" does not change what this payment for services really is. Call it what you want. I appluad those who reply politely, even if it to say not interested but good luck. Others feign interest then just disappear, or stop replying with no reason given. Just be real, and be honest is all we ask.

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RE: Looking for a real Domme, who isnt just in it for t... - 2/7/2013 6:27:02 AM

DarkSteven

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quote:

ORIGINAL: johnsk

I agree..very disappointed in many Dommes here who do not even bother to reply to messages, or are just plain rude when they do. The polite word "tribute" does not change what this payment for services really is. Call it what you want. I appluad those who reply politely, even if it to say not interested but good luck. Others feign interest then just disappear, or stop replying with no reason given. Just be real, and be honest is all we ask.

Hi, john. Sadly, the women who do send a "Thanks bit no thanks" letter to men usually get nasty responses. That's plus the number of messages they get, precludes them sending out responses. And keep in mind that you're semi-retired and with no attachments - the women you contact likely have more busy lives than you.

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