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Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 4:15:09 PM

ropelover1956

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Hello Everyone!
I am a brand new Dominant on the site! My "name" is ropelover56, and I am a swm from Milwaukee WI. seeking a female submissive to experience the thrills and arousal of an intense and realistic abduction fantasy. Of course, this is a rough scene, and she is going to need to read my profile and decide if she is up to the challange- I do not change the particulars once they have been agreedSo if you are a sub living within 100 MI. of Milwaukee, and want to inquire about a date with me, leave me a message!

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RE: Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 4:29:19 PM

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Welcome to the forums.

1. Forget about women contacting you. Too many of us men, too few women. So we contact them.

2. I strongly urge you to reconsider your stance about not changing play once agreed upon. If a woman opts to withdraw her consent and you press forward, that's called rape.

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RE: Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 4:34:36 PM

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Yeah, with that romantic thread title I'm sure the women will be flocking.

Welcome to the discussion forums.

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RE: Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 4:37:26 PM

ropelover1956

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Thanks for the advice- I sort of knew this would be a deal breaker- well I guess if they were that submissive they would be a guys slave! Well I tried!

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RE: Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 4:46:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: ropelover1956

Thanks for the advice- I sort of knew this would be a deal breaker- well I guess if they were that submissive they would be a guys slave! Well I tried!

There is so much wrong with that statement, that it's even difficult to know where to begin.

Engaging in rape play very often brings up unexpected reactions during the event. Not allowing a woman to withdraw consent would cause actual harm and would fit the legal definition of rape.

It has nothing to do with submission, it has to do with preventing harm.....and that fact that you don't realize that, makes you someone that most of us would have the good sense to avoid.

I hope to God you never find a woman stupid enough to consent to your scenario.

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RE: Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 4:47:43 PM

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To answer your question, why would I even want to do that? I don't know you.

Anyway, welcome to Collarme. Hopefully you stick around and we will get to know you. Newbies make all kinds of mistakes about BDSM. It's never too late to learn.

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RE: Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 4:57:30 PM

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I don't want to get a golden letter so, I'll just say welcome.

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RE: Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 4:57:37 PM

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Welcome to the discussion boards, OP! Here, on this side, we are all equals and talk about things both kinky and non.

Men outnumber the women by about 10:1 on sites like these. CM is no different in that respect. It isn't a matter of whether or not she is submissive enough, it is a matter of her inbox being constantly full and so she doesn't need to go searching. Most women don't need to go online to hook up with strangers. We can get that in just about any bar out there.

As Oside said, rape/abduction play can bring up things unexpectedly. Particularly when done with a stranger. It requires a great amount of trust to go there with someone you like and respect, let alone with someone you barely know. Submissives are not doormats or mere playthings. We are human beings with thoughts and feelings. We often have to look after our own best interests because we can't expect someone to do that for us.

Go ahead and do things your way. Just don't be surprised if you end up arrested for sexual assault and kidnapping. No amount of waivers you have her sign will get you out of that (or being on a sex offenders list).

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RE: Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 4:59:45 PM

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FR,

I want to remind everyone that here in Introductions comments should be limited to those of a welcoming nature. Making suggestions that will help the new member have a better forum experience, in a friendly manner, is acceptable. Discussion is encouraged if that discussion is positive and without insult. If you find an introduction that prompts you to be unwelcoming, we ask that you pass that introduction up and not respond to it.

Perhaps someone would care to start a thread on "The Do's and Don'ts of Rape Play" and post a link here.

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RE: Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 5:00:48 PM

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Hello ropelover, welcome to CM.

The women on this site as in real life tend to look for a whole man as opposed to just a penis. It's not really very hard to make a cock hard, not sure why you set that as a parameter for your future partner but since it's important to you I hope you find fulfillment.

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RE: Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 5:04:06 PM

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Well now, I am so happy to have gotten a truthful reaction to my "scenario"- I was testing the waters, so to speak- I have been on many different websites, and most were full of phony profiles, or Love Stars- paid respondants- I was beginning to think I'd have to give up my hope of finding a true and honest website!!!! THANK YOU ALL! Really, I had a girlfriend a few years ago, who was deeply into rape fantasy- I'd be required to wear ski masks, nylons, or hoods, and take her by force- yes, we had a brief knowledge of each other from work, but it wasn't the type of background most of YOU think you need to have to experience the intense scenario! I must have just been very fortunate to find a woman like her! I do NOT APPROVE of the CRIME of RAPE- but it DOES lend itself to many varied and erotic forms of foreplay, are we in agreement this far? I am NOT A RAPIST NOR A CRIMINAL- just an older guy trying to rekindle the fire and spark I felt with "Kelly" so many times! I appologize for my seemingly rude behavior, and wish to ask your communal forgiveness! Please do not be afraid of me, for I just am seeking a gal in my area to have some sexual enjoyment with, in a manner that serves us both with the opportunity to use our imaginations and long established impressions of what such a meeting would be like!

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RE: Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 5:11:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: ropelover1956

Thanks for the advice- I sort of knew this would be a deal breaker- well I guess if they were that submissive they would be a guys slave! Well I tried!

Um.

It's a deal breaker? So there's no way you could stop if she told you to?

That's NOT being submissive, doing whatever a man says, regardless of her state. That's being dumb as hell, or else shell-shocked. Either way, you could expect your name to be dragged through the mud.

You seem to think that there is a direct correlation between submissiveness and desirability. Not exactly - there are plenty of other criteria.

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ORIGINAL: ropelover1956

Really, I had a girlfriend a few years ago, who was deeply into rape fantasy

Now, THAT'S something altogether different. Your profile and post sound like you want to meet up, and force her in play sessions only. Your above statement references abduction fantasies within a relationship. That's a lot more promising.

< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 2/5/2013 5:14:41 PM >

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RE: Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 5:31:58 PM

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um... yeah welcome to the forums.

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RE: Can you make my cock swell? - 2/5/2013 7:11:09 PM

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As this thread has no hope of staying within section guidelines it has been locked. If any of you want your posts back to repost on another thread in an appropriate section, please let me know via CMail.

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