Casteele
Posts: 655
Joined: 12/10/2011 From: Near Sacramento, California, USA Status: offline
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FR Perspectives and other thoughts from a shorter guy (I'm only 5'4").. I've had women turn away from me because I'm not tall, and had some be even less than polite about it. Does it affect me? Yes, of course it does--I'm only human. Does it bother me? Only a little--and mainly with those who are rude about it. At the end of the day, though, it does not matter. I want someone who will be compatible with me above all else--and someone who values thing like height, weight, size, bank account, IQ, cock size, skin color, an other physical/material criteria, are not compatible with me, and I don't even want to be with someone that would spend the rest of their lives looking at me like "wow, I love his personality, but another six inches would be even better!" It would make me feel like they were just settling for less. The main thing I find funny about this kind of topic is the way people react to them.. We all have our preferences, tastes, ideals, values, things which make us tingle when we think about them (and just as often find that when we have it, it doesn't measure up to the tingle in practice). One guy likes a big bubble butt, another likes big tits, another likes skinny girls, another likes BBWs, one girl likes Scotish accents, another like carrot tops, still another loves those guys with cockpics.. so what? If it turns you on, it turns you on; If it doesn't, no amount of rationalization or political correctness will change that. One thing I get from time to time is people asking the fatal question.. to paraphrase, "How can I write my profile so every last man/woman on earth comes beating down my door to want me?" The only answer I can give them is "Why?" Why do you want everyone out there to want you, to find you the perfect mate? What if you don't like BBW types? Do you want them crashing down your door with lust for you, too? For the girls, you don't like guys with cockpics in their profiles, so why do you want them to want you? That is more about you own ego than it is about finding someone to spend your life with. Point is, be who you are, like what you like, and find someone that is compatible. Don't worry so much about what everyone else likes/wants or does not. *gets off his soapbox and resumes your regularly scheduled snark*
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