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Male Subs only plz - 2/6/2013 9:02:44 PM   
AlittleCrazy098


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Status: offline 		Ok! I messaged a women (domme) and she responded. Which is pretty cool and exciting because it's my first response where the a girl simply said.

"send me a picture of yourself saying "w/e" as the subject line. We will meet at X location on Saturday at Y time."

Now here is my question! Should I call her tomorrow and try sparking a short and brief conversation; or should I wait a few days then call her only to verify that we will still be meeting?

The "man" in me says call her tomorrow. The logic is that most men wouldn't call and that calling would make me look good. However, the sub in me says if she wants to talk then she'll call herself.

What would you do in this situation?

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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/6/2013 9:17:45 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I'm having a hard time reading your writing. Did you send her a single unsolicited message, and she responded with a meeting proposition? Something smells wrong.

Is "saturated" an autocorrect for Saturday?

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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/6/2013 9:25:06 PM   
AlittleCrazy098


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Status: offline 		I understand why you are skeptical, but we met on fet-life and she has been active on it by posting comments, having friends, and things of that nature. So, I think it's unlikely a scam of some sort. Though she could be playing me, but there is no way to tell in this situation. Also, we are meeting at a public place, so I'm confident that I am safe. Plus, I'll have a plan encase something crazy happens.

I'm confused by what you mean as "unsolicited message." The message I sent her was with the intent of one day meeting each other. I expressed my intentions and she expressed hers on her profile.

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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/6/2013 9:51:38 PM   
theRose4U


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ORIGINAL: AlittleCrazy098

I understand why you are skeptical, but we met on fet-life and she has been active on it by posting comments, having friends, and things of that nature. So, I think it's unlikely a scam of some sort. Though she could be playing me, but there is no way to tell in this situation. Also, we are meeting at a public place, so I'm confident that I am safe. Plus, I'll have a plan encase something crazy happens.

I'm confused by what you mean as "unsolicited message." The message I sent her was with the intent of one day meeting each other. I expressed my intentions and she expressed hers on her profile.

So the answer is yes it was an email to someone you did not know, have prior contact with or an exsisting relationship with. The answer being send me a pic & meet me here to a random email is VERY odd

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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/6/2013 10:07:42 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		yup, another fishy situation. I mean you don't find it odd that you two have only had one email a piece to each other and you have not talked extensively at all???

I guess you could show up with no expectations and if she shows up, great. if not, then no loss on your part.


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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/6/2013 10:47:49 PM   
AlittleCrazy098


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Status: offline 		Unfortunately, all I can do is speculate and the reality is that you could get played in any situation. So, did I question this? Of course! However, as you pointed out what do I have to lose?

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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/6/2013 11:18:03 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		You exchanged phone numbers after just one email sent and received? That's not too bad. Shoot, I never do that. Phone numbers come much later for Me than the first email exchange.

I'd go with call Friday to confirm/make sure nothing has come up that leads to postponing. Of course, you know all of the regular jazz. Be polite, tell her you are looking forward to meeting. I know you said male subs, but as a female D-type, I can say I'd welcome a call like that.


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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/7/2013 12:02:25 AM   
LafayetteLady


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Status: offline 		Is it a cell phone number do you know? Then instead of giving her a possibly unwanted call, you could simply text the confirmation?

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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/7/2013 3:42:08 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

You exchanged phone numbers after just one email sent and received? That's not too bad. Shoot, I never do that. Phone numbers come much later for Me than the first email exchange.

I'd go with call Friday to confirm/make sure nothing has come up that leads to postponing. Of course, you know all of the regular jazz. Be polite, tell her you are looking forward to meeting. I know you said male subs, but as a female D-type, I can say I'd welcome a call like that.



This, or send a text/email just checking your meeting is still going ahead.

You might be being played, but like you said, what do you have to lose? Worst case scenario you have a drink alone and then go back home.

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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/7/2013 9:11:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I'm having a hard time reading your writing. Did you send her a single unsolicited message, and she responded with a meeting proposition? Something smells wrong.


I know a woman who does that. When a guy sends an initial email saying they want to meet her, without knowing anything about her she'll tell them that she'll be at Starbucks at a certain time with no intention of being there.


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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/7/2013 2:26:53 PM   
InsaneSerenity


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I'm having a hard time reading your writing. Did you send her a single unsolicited message, and she responded with a meeting proposition? Something smells wrong.


I know a woman who does that. When a guy sends an initial email saying they want to meet her, without knowing anything about her she'll tell them that she'll be at Starbucks at a certain time with no intention of being there.



while anything is possible, the above sounds far more likely. and the phone number is probably fake as well.

but you never know.

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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/7/2013 2:38:04 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I'm having a hard time reading your writing. Did you send her a single unsolicited message, and she responded with a meeting proposition? Something smells wrong.


I know a woman who does that. When a guy sends an initial email saying they want to meet her, without knowing anything about her she'll tell them that she'll be at Starbucks at a certain time with no intention of being there.

Wasn't there some kind of running gag on 4-chan (did I do that right?) where people did this exact thing? I'm not suggesting this is the case for the OP. I'm curious about other instances.



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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/7/2013 6:38:36 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I admit I did that once.

I had this guy who would message me on here and he never seemed to get my sarcasm. It just flew over his head each and every time. Eventually I told him where he could meet me at a certain day and time. I have no idea if he ever went for it or not. Knowing how gullible the guy was I'm gonna guess he probably did and then it hit him finally lol.


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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/7/2013 6:59:47 PM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		The woman I know says, "If you say you want to meet me before we've ever even conversed, you deserve what you get."

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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/7/2013 7:55:49 PM   
theRose4U


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ORIGINAL: AlittleCrazy098

Unfortunately, all I can do is speculate and the reality is that you could get played in any situation. So, did I question this? Of course! However, as you pointed out what do I have to lose?

Your wallet, car, consciousness??
You do realize there is a reason so many of us meet new people at starbucks??

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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/7/2013 10:56:42 PM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		He did say they were meeting in public, so I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt on that one.

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RE: Male Subs only plz - 2/11/2013 1:26:48 AM   
Unsuper


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Status: offline 		So how did it go.
As for the unusually brief/upfront message to me says that she's insecure (I've done things like this because of insecurity) but it can just as easily mean fake. You still alive bro?

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