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Advice please - 2/7/2013 1:14:26 AM

slaveg79

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Can a slave be owned by a Master and then (with permission from master of course) then have a domme also ?

Would this work ?

Long story short Master said i could have a lover who then turned out to be a domme .

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RE: Advice please - 2/7/2013 5:22:21 AM

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Can it work? Sure.

Will it take a lot of work from everybody involved? Absolutely.

Everybody will have to be completely open with everybody else involved. You are going to have to navigate a number of potential pitfalls, like jealousy and how your time is divided.

The only way you'll be able to make it work is if you, your Master, and your lover/Domme all sit down together and figure out how the relationship will work for all three of you.

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RE: Advice please - 2/7/2013 5:42:09 AM

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The only thing I'd add to what muhly22222 posted is that those meetings between the three of you need to be done regularly, not just a one time thing.

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RE: Advice please - 2/7/2013 5:50:43 AM

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Thanks yes we are all in constant contact with each other , nothing has happened yet between myself and the domme as we are still trying to figure all this out lol ....lots of talking going on x

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RE: Advice please - 2/7/2013 7:40:27 AM

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Under how many different sections of the forum are you going to ask this same question??????????????

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RE: Advice please - 2/7/2013 9:00:21 AM

slaveg79

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I thought i could get a masters advice and a mistress .

Is that a problem esotericlady?

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RE: Advice please - 2/7/2013 9:26:57 AM

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In my opinion how well this works depends a LOT on what you mean by "owned", "master" and "domme".

The bottom line is that it's not real hard to figure this out. Will there be an authority conflict or not? If your master says one thing and your domme says another what will you do? So long as the three of you have good clean answers to that potential problem then what's the rub?

And yes, there is a problem with cross-posting the same post in several forums. It's frowned on. Don't worry, newcomers do it and we correct them and the world continues to spin on it's axis. In addition, us masters post in the mistress section and vice-versa. Think of those forum groupings as rough suggestions not "the law".

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RE: Advice please - 2/7/2013 9:45:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

Under how many different sections of the forum are you going to ask this same question??????????????

LOL. I was actually sitting here just a minute thinking I was having my own version of Groundhogs Day (the Bill Murray movie) because this thread seemed to be in whatever section I opened.

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RE: Advice please - 2/7/2013 10:05:18 AM

slaveg79

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Lol sorry for the confusion but thanks for the advice :) x

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RE: Advice please - 2/7/2013 6:30:30 PM

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Mods will eventually remove the rest but one. At least that's usually what they do.

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RE: Advice please - 2/15/2013 4:31:06 PM

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My experience is that a split command inevitably leads to disaster.

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