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TigressLily -> RE: STRAPON Domme in QLD Australia?? (9/11/2013 7:37:01 AM)
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Boy, your profile says you're 25, not 21. Are you still a virgin, if you don't mind my asking? Have you ever had a girlfriend/boyfriend-type relationship before?
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ORIGINAL: updownunder
Well, I am a 21yr old male, living on the Gold Coast, Australia.
-a yet to be tamed, trained, owned and named slut
You're not just inexperienced (a newbie), it would seem you have ZERO experience as a submissive male. You don't go from 0 mph-120 mph in this or any other area of life. What are you thinking? There is such a thing called Dilation, and that should be done gradually IMO, starting with anal (butt) plugs, then smaller-to-larger size dildos (vibrators optional with some Dommes), over a reasonable period of time before a strap-on would ever enter the picture. In other words, get prepped.
You basically have 2 options. Find a kinky sex partner. Unfortunately, that could end up as the blind leading the blind. Your other option is to hire a provider, what's called a Pro-Domme who does this sort of thing. Can't determine how practical either of these alternatives would be for you.
Welcome to the forum side of this site. A few words of advice. There are perhaps 50-100 male subs for every female Dominant, and Dommes ordinarily don't like it when a sub leads with his fetish/kink, which is exactly what you are doing. We're not a bunch of sex-crazed Amazons lurking around, waiting for every anal cherry that presents itself. Your avatar is cartoonish, and while it might excite you, it can be an immediate turn-off for any Domme you attempt to make contact with, so you might want to rethink using it. You haven't filled out your Interests in your profile, so go do that and you can check off Anal Play and Strap-ons etc. there, included along with non-BDSM & non-sexual Interests as well.
Hope this helps you out some.
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