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jaydedpyxie -> apparently stalked? (6/20/2006 11:55:03 AM)

Hey guys i didn't know which forum to post in but i needed some advice.

i've been on this site several times before and have had to delete my account due to a specific person or persons who keep finding my profile and messaging me. i've been messaged by what appeared to be a dom and his sub then another girl seemingly of no relation but in talking to them in chat (yahoo) off this site i've discovered they're all the same. they can be quite vulgar and very disrespectful. It's happened again and i'm tired of deleting my account. i can't report the emails from here because they're not bad in and of themselves and these people keep creating and deleting their profiles on here (like they'll create a profile and delete it after they've gotten my yahoo sn).

i'm not sure how to report this or if there's even anything that can be done but i don't want to let this ruin my fun on this site because i know there are some really cool people here.  only now i don't know how to tell which people messaging me are the people in question.

Does anyone have any ideas what i could do? Any help would be appreciated....




stef -> RE: apparently stalked? (6/20/2006 11:56:52 AM)

Block them and move on.

~stef



pahunkboy -> RE: apparently stalked? (6/20/2006 12:01:21 PM)

Avoid chat rooms. Dont give out personal info.

Change your online habits.

Do you know these people real time?



OedipusRexIt -> RE: apparently stalked? (6/20/2006 12:07:48 PM)

There's a learning curve in membership, I think.

Ultimately, you can't entirely hide from someone on this site.  That part would have to simply be blocked and/or ignored. 

As far as outside the site goes, you simply have exercise more discretion over who recieves additional information. 

Your profile makes your point clear, so no guilt is associated with your control of your own privacy.



SimplyV -> RE: apparently stalked? (6/20/2006 12:08:58 PM)

Are you sure these are the same people? not just your average every day moron?

Do you talk to them a while on here before giving out your yahoo id?  Are they also creating new yahoo id's to harrass you?

There are ways to battle it by reporting and what not.. but honestly, its hard to get anything done about it as the burden of proof is on you.

Your best bet is just to block them.  When they start acting like morons, block them and be done. 



jaydedpyxie -> RE: apparently stalked? (6/20/2006 12:39:55 PM)

i do exchange a few messages on here each time before i give out any more info but the recent ploy is to pretend to be a female since that's what i'm predominantly looking for. they change the locations to random spots but always when they message me on yahoo it's the same guy's pic on the profile (which always happens the second time i talk to them on yahoo) yes i do know how to say no though because the first time i talk to them on messenger they always prompt for more pics which i decline until i've gotten to know them better...they are also coming up with new yahoo names because i not only block them on here but on yahoo too once i realize who it is.



pahunkboy -> RE: apparently stalked? (6/20/2006 12:44:26 PM)

Dont talk to anyone that wants cybersex.



mnottertail -> RE: apparently stalked? (6/20/2006 12:48:34 PM)

BE the celery, Grasshopper!



timeoutgurlie -> RE: apparently stalked? (6/20/2006 3:08:19 PM)

Only read the OP, if you're being stalked, it may be wise to take down your photo.

A large number of people here 'skim' the new members list.  Yours will show up when you make a new profile.  They are looking for you anyhow then have your pic there as a dead giveaway...seems it couldn't be easier for them to find you.



SirCumSpank -> RE: apparently stalked? (6/20/2006 4:20:22 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: jaydedpyxie

Hey guys i didn't know which forum to post in but i needed some advice.

i've been on this site several times before and have had to delete my account due to a specific person or persons who keep finding my profile and messaging me. i've been messaged by what appeared to be a dom and his sub then another girl seemingly of no relation but in talking to them in chat (yahoo) off this site i've discovered they're all the same. they can be quite vulgar and very disrespectful. It's happened again and i'm tired of deleting my account. i can't report the emails from here because they're not bad in and of themselves and these people keep creating and deleting their profiles on here (like they'll create a profile and delete it after they've gotten my yahoo sn).

i'm not sure how to report this or if there's even anything that can be done but i don't want to let this ruin my fun on this site because i know there are some really cool people here.  only now i don't know how to tell which people messaging me are the people in question.

Does anyone have any ideas what i could do? Any help would be appreciated....








Wulfchyld -> RE: apparently stalked? (6/20/2006 4:23:52 PM)

This should help.

http://www.cybersnitch.net/cybersnitch.htm



SirCumsSlut -> RE: apparently stalked? (6/20/2006 4:24:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirCumSpank

quote:

ORIGINAL: jaydedpyxie

Hey guys i didn't know which forum to post in but i needed some advice.

i've been on this site several times before and have had to delete my account due to a specific person or persons who keep finding my profile and messaging me. i've been messaged by what appeared to be a dom and his sub then another girl seemingly of no relation but in talking to them in chat (yahoo) off this site i've discovered they're all the same. they can be quite vulgar and very disrespectful. It's happened again and i'm tired of deleting my account. i can't report the emails from here because they're not bad in and of themselves and these people keep creating and deleting their profiles on here (like they'll create a profile and delete it after they've gotten my yahoo sn).

i'm not sure how to report this or if there's even anything that can be done but i don't want to let this ruin my fun on this site because i know there are some really cool people here.  only now i don't know how to tell which people messaging me are the people in question.

Does anyone have any ideas what i could do? Any help would be appreciated....








Forgive the above post......forgot I was in Sir's name
 
You can contact your internet provider as well as the local authorities.  If you have copies of all correspondence they can file harrassment or stalking charges.  Am not sure if this is something that you want to do, but is my suggestion



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