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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 6:16:24 PM   
Darkfeather


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too much vanilla :-)


You know, I have actually never heard vanilla used in describing me... I have heard milk chocolate, coffee, mocha latte... but never vanilla. I will have to tell my friends I actually got mistaken for a white guy, heh



Perhaps a Starbucks Blonde but not vanilla. .
You just don't seem like vanilla to me.




You know, I can honestly say I have never had Starbucks coffee, Down with Corporate America and all the rich fatcats, Man

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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 6:27:07 PM   
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You know, I can honestly say I have never had Starbucks coffee, Down with Corporate America and all the rich fatcats, Man



I haven't had a blonde either, but it's lighter than their dark coffees.
And well you aren't exactly dark *winks*



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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 6:30:00 PM   
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You know, I can honestly say I have never had Starbucks coffee, Down with Corporate America and all the rich fatcats, Man



I haven't had a blonde either, but it's lighter than their dark coffees.
And well you aren't exactly dark *winks*




Yeah, you should've seen my dad. The only way people knew he was african american was when he showed his driver's licence :P

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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 6:31:22 PM   
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Yeah, you should've seen my dad. The only way people knew he was african american was when he showed his driver's licence :P


Lol


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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 6:32:06 PM   
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I would say it's probably you and your profile or you really have no idea what these people are saying and you are interpreting their emails incorrectly.


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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 8:28:00 PM   
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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 8:30:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

Personally, I have a hard time relating to this. I don't have any urges to be tied up and rape fucked. It's hard to pin this one down though. It's very switchy activity wise, however outside of the sex/kink there's a lot which remains to be seen here.



So do you consider anal sex a submissive act??



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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 8:35:01 PM   
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Personally, I have a hard time relating to this. I don't have any urges to be tied up and rape fucked. It's hard to pin this one down though. It's very switchy activity wise, however outside of the sex/kink there's a lot which remains to be seen here.



So do you consider anal sex a submissive act??




No more than any other sexual act. However, it's all about how it's done which counts. :





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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 8:35:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw


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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

Personally, I have a hard time relating to this. I don't have any urges to be tied up and rape fucked. It's hard to pin this one down though. It's very switchy activity wise, however outside of the sex/kink there's a lot which remains to be seen here.



So do you consider anal sex a submissive act??




If a guy in a dark alley shoves a gun in my face and says bend over or eat a bullet, then yes, that anal would be sub. If I were in prison and Tyrone in the upper bunk said he was pitching or I would lose my arm in a freak flushing accident that night, then yes that anal would be sub. But if I said look wench, I want you to take this strapon and roger me because I find it pleasurable/you find it pleasurable/hell, the cat would find watching it hot... then no that's not sub

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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 8:39:30 PM   
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If a guy in a dark alley shoves a gun in my face and says bend over or eat a bullet, then yes, that anal would be sub. If I were in prison and Tyrone in the upper bunk said he was pitching or I would lose my arm in a freak flushing accident that night, then yes that anal would be sub. But if I said look wench, I want you to take this strapon and roger me because I find it pleasurable/you find it pleasurable/hell, the cat would find watching it hot... then no that's not sub


Agreed.


ETA: If an act is forced upon you is it truly a submissive act (your 1st 2 examples) or is it simply self preservation?

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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 8:45:07 PM   
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what you think about masters who like to be fucked raped tied?

seems strange for me but most of them says:

I am your master and i order u to rape me....





Not 100% sure what you're talking about. But, generally, I think this: Labels don't mean shit. People want what they want. If we contradict ourselves, so what - as Walt Whitman said, we contain multitudes. All that matters is you figure out what works for you, and then find someone else it works for too.

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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 8:45:23 PM   
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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 8:46:48 PM   
neewbie


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Status: offline 		no switching roles here. But if some Masters like then thats ok its just that I want a straight relationship

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RE: master or sub? - 2/9/2013 8:50:51 PM   
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If an act is forced upon you is it truly a submissive act (your 1st 2 examples) or is it simply self preservation?


Oh, in my examples I'd say purely self preservation

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RE: master or sub? - 2/10/2013 1:54:56 AM   
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no switching roles here. But if some Masters like then thats ok its just that I want a straight relationship


I don't see how obeying his orders would constitute switching roles, and if you're a woman doing it with a man, that's straight sex regardless of what goes in which hole.

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RE: master or sub? - 2/10/2013 5:02:24 PM   
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It's the worm.....


Gagh?

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RE: master or sub? - 2/10/2013 5:37:06 PM   
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RE: master or sub? - 2/12/2013 11:52:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		i can see a dom instructing a sub to do pleasing things to his anus if he's into that, but sounds to me if he's asking to be tied up and raped he's more switch than dom.

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You know, I can honestly say I have never had Starbucks coffee, Down with Corporate America and all the rich fatcats, Man

yes yes yes!

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RE: master or sub? - 2/12/2013 12:16:04 PM   
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what you think about masters who like to be fucked raped tied?



I'd call 'em switches.

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RE: master or sub? - 2/12/2013 1:25:28 PM   
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what you think about masters who like to be fucked raped tied?

seems strange for me but most of them says:

I am your master and i order u to rape me....



"Most??" I'm not sure how many you've talked to to justify your "most" statement here.

Other than that, if they are still in charge and directing the activities, I'd say they're still Dominant. There ARE Dom/mes who will bottom for sensations now & then, bottoming being entirely different than submitting. If he actually wants to give up control, I'd say he's switch rather than Dom.

But I think you're just trying to stir up shit. I've read your profile and it's....well, it is what it is.

NBMG

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