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What makes a good Dom? - 2/9/2013 9:32:46 PM   
Mcnastyfeet


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Status: offline 		Hi everyone I am new to this forum I currently just only do foot fetish and financial slavery role play any suggestions on how to get into the BDSM life style without putting my self out there?
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RE: What makes a good Dom? - 2/10/2013 3:27:10 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I'm not following what you mean by "get into the BDSM lifestyle" or not "putting yourself out there".

Getting into the lifestyle is easy. Go to munches and play parties.

Am I missing something?

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RE: What makes a good Dom? - 2/10/2013 3:43:42 AM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		If you want a profitable return, you gotta put yourself out there. I hate I tell ya but being a successful fin domme, takes a lot of work; contrary to what a few idiots that like to spit ignorance towards us think. It takes learning, dedication, and work. So get ready....or you can be like the rest of these princesses and make a quick few hundred dollars and become like the rest of the furniture. I'd pick the work and success.

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RE: What makes a good Dom? - 2/10/2013 5:51:52 AM   
TheLilSquaw


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Status: offline 		What do you mean by get into the BDSM lifestyle by not putting yourself out there??



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RE: What makes a good Dom? - 2/10/2013 2:57:58 PM   
TieMeInKnottss


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Status: offline 		Um..if you are advertising for customers...shouldn't you already KNOW that.

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RE: What makes a good Dom? - 2/10/2013 5:01:00 PM   
VideoAdminChi


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This thread is now in Ask A Mistress.

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RE: What makes a good Dom? - 2/10/2013 5:47:18 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mcnastyfeet

Hi everyone I am new to this forum I currently just only do foot fetish and financial slavery role play any suggestions on how to get into the BDSM life style without putting my self out there?


How did you become an "expert" at CBT and assplay without putting yourself out there?

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RE: What makes a good Dom? - 2/10/2013 6:08:01 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Does this mean that you want to stay at home, gain your education about kink by osmosis, and have others flock to you? If that is what you are asking, I don't have an answer for you.

On the other hand, if you would like to LEARN how to be an accomplished Dominant or top, I would suggest going out to your local community to learn from others, read non fiction BDSM books by reputed authors, get a mentor to teach you skills, and do everything that you can to hone your craft.


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RE: What makes a good Dom? - 2/10/2013 7:16:15 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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ORIGINAL: VideoAdminChi

FR,

This thread is now in Ask A Mistress.


You're punishing us for something, aren't you? Sadist.

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RE: What makes a good Dom? - 2/10/2013 7:25:16 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

You're punishing us for something, aren't you? Sadist.


It's collarme's way of saying that all wimmins should be submissives. If they persists in being Dommes, they have to deal with drivel.

Have I convinced you yet, Sylvere?

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: What makes a good Dom? - 2/10/2013 7:29:04 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


quote:

ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

You're punishing us for something, aren't you? Sadist.


It's collarme's way of saying that all wimmins should be submissives. If they persists in being Dommes, they have to deal with drivel.

Have I convinced you yet, Sylvere?




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RE: What makes a good Dom? - 2/11/2013 8:42:43 AM   
msjustlooking


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ORIGINAL: Mcnastyfeet

.........how to get into the BDSM life style without putting my self out there?


There is no way to get into the BDSM lifestyle without putting yourself out there. We all take chances and we all assume certain risks. Its worth it to meet some good people and make some friends in the lifestyle. So put yourself out there.

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