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bandit25 -> RE: Low self-esteem and submission… (6/22/2006 3:31:01 AM)

I think Daddysredhead said it best.  There are people in all walks of life that have low self esteem, high self esteem or even no self esteem.  It has nothing to do with being submissive.  I would think that finding the right partner/Owner/Dom would raise one's self esteem and help one feel greater self esteem in his/her submissiveness and in all aspects of one's life.  I don't have self esteem issues (can you tell?); however, my Dom recently helped me over an issue I've been having with my appearance due to a condition I recently developed.  Without His reassurances, I might still be wearing long sleeves in 90 degree weather! 



Daddysredhead -> RE: Low self-esteem and submission… (6/22/2006 4:50:04 AM)

*humbly thanks bandit and blushes...*




heartfeltsub -> RE: Low self-esteem and submission… (6/22/2006 5:40:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Master96

Well I admit… it was surprising for me how people differently reacted and answered my thread.

Anyway… I enjoyed it and learned from it, and thanks to everyone.

Master96,



i am not sure exactly what kind of response you were looking for when your question basically states that you think all those who are submissive suffer from low self-esteem. If someone had asked you if all people who call themselves Master suffer from low self-esteem and have to control others to feel better about themselves, wouldn't such a blanket indictment offend you?



Master96 -> RE: Low self-esteem and submission… (6/22/2006 1:31:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: heartfeltsub
... basically states that you think all those who are submissive suffer from low self-esteem.


I didn’t assume that… please understand me. I asked the question to know if that is true, I didn’t say it was.

quote:

ORIGINAL: heartfeltsub
If someone had asked you if all people who call themselves Master suffer from low self-esteem and have to control others to feel better about themselves, wouldn't such a blanket indictment offend you?


Probably… but I would argue him/her, and wouldn’t attack that person.

Master96,



Darklotus -> RE: Low self-esteem and submission… (6/25/2006 2:48:48 PM)

HA! Low-self esteem?? Not in the slightest I have become MUCH
 more empowered.



murmur -> RE: Low self-esteem and submission… (6/25/2006 7:46:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I bet there are just as many low self esteem doms as there are subs.


if not more... [:-]



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