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arhant021 -> bdsm in India (2/15/2013 4:01:39 AM)

I ve been active on this site since quite some time now and am yet to come across any people from India who genuinely follow this l/s. Anyone out there been able to meet some one from India who s into this l/s in real time through this site..?



LafayetteLady -> RE: bdsm in India (2/15/2013 4:03:36 AM)

Set your search parameters to India. Lots of people came up.



xssve -> RE: bdsm in India (2/15/2013 7:20:38 AM)

India I think, is complicated, the caste system creates a lot of weird bottlenecks, and I'm not sure what all kinds of superstition: tantric body fluids superstition, etc. Anyway, rape is going up there, while it's doing down just about every other place that has internet.

Literotica has a healthy Indian contingent, I don't know about BDSM, they seem pretty heavily into incest play, wife and little sister, lotta that type stuff, which I assume is probably a response to fairly rigid caste boundaries that make casual dating problematic for a lot of people.



Pyramus -> RE: bdsm in India (2/15/2013 7:30:31 AM)

I don't know a thing about India - but I assume the country, despite the origins of the kama sutra, is repressed sexually.

I base this ONLY upon my knowledge of Indian women in the United States (yes, I clearly state this is a poor example).

So, I ask the Indians out there: Is the country as open about fetish sex as we are in the US (which isn't all that open itself)?

If not, then the fetish scene is hidden. Deeply hidden perhaps. And repressed.




TNDommeK -> RE: bdsm in India (2/15/2013 12:36:08 PM)

Op, one of the girls is Indian/Persian. She happen to be in Cali when hubby found her. But her father still lives there and visits the states for business. So yes there are, to answer your question.

As far as *in* India, I don't know. I can ask her when she wakes up.



MissBlueangel -> RE: bdsm in India (2/15/2013 12:44:42 PM)

I have been to India a few times and have found sexual suppression to be quite obvious.
Homosexuality was virtually underground.
But In this country I have been approached by a few Asian men on this site, and even more couples when I was a swinger.



HarryVanWinkle -> RE: bdsm in India (2/15/2013 4:21:11 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: arhant021

I ve been active on this site since quite some time now and am yet to come across any people from India who genuinely follow this l/s. Anyone out there been able to meet some one from India who s into this l/s in real time through this site..?


What l/s are you talking about and how do people "genuinely follow" it?



LafayetteLady -> RE: bdsm in India (2/15/2013 10:33:10 PM)

Well, if you look again, he wasn't asking about clubs or activities in India. He specifically asked about people on this site. There are plenty listed, so either all of them don't mean his definition of "following this lifestyle," or he hasn't used the search function.



Neel -> RE: bdsm in India (2/21/2013 10:16:43 AM)

Well, it depends. There is lot kink in India and majority doesnt come publicly.

I am slave and doggie of my elder step sister, I was brought up like her personal servant in house from her age 23yrs, she is 15yrs elder than me



subbiedude -> RE: bdsm in India (2/22/2013 3:12:15 AM)

As an Indian i can say that BDSM is still in its infancy in india, mostly behind closed doors, Its very difficult to find a mistress as opposed to a master in india (I think the same holds good in other parts of the world too). If ur lucky you will surely find one, but i will not pin my hopes only on online sites. better find a dominant girlfriend or a wife by nature, who is unaware of bdsm (Most likely), you can introduce this l/s to her anyway in the midst of ur relationship. Best of Luck



Etruscano -> RE: bdsm in India (2/22/2013 5:19:43 AM)

I've never met a kinky Indian ever in my life!



PainCompliant -> RE: bdsm in India (2/28/2013 2:52:09 PM)

I've heard that some US masters are outsourcing their slave training.



arhant021 -> RE: bdsm in India (3/1/2013 12:54:43 PM)

highly appreciate all the replies.. but as it turns out the ans to me question is 'NO'.. n yes I have set my search parameters to India but there s a vast difference between online fantasies and real time play



Pyramus -> RE: bdsm in India (3/1/2013 2:00:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: arhant021

I have set my search parameters to India


That's a big country.

I would set the search to within 25 miles of where you live, for a reality check.

Personally, I don't go further than 5 miles out - but that's just me.



arhant021 -> RE: bdsm in India (4/7/2013 3:40:28 PM)

its kinda hard to bel that there s been hardly any inputs from Indians on this post..kinda proves my point..hardly ny ppl from my country into this l/s..



LadyPact -> RE: bdsm in India (4/7/2013 3:58:55 PM)

I think you need to take into consideration that this site is very heavily populated by those in the United States and United Kingdom. I couldn't tell you what the percentages are, but just knowing the country of origin of many of the regular posters, I would say those two cover a huge chunk of the CM posting population.



DarkSteven -> RE: bdsm in India (4/7/2013 4:06:29 PM)


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ORIGINAL: arhant021

its kinda hard to bel that there s been hardly any inputs from Indians on this post..kinda proves my point..hardly ny ppl from my country into this l/s..


Nope. It proves that there are few people from India who are into this life who own a computer and are on collarme. There ARE other sites, and I'd expect that a lot of Indians don't own/use a computer.



angelikaJ -> RE: bdsm in India (4/7/2013 6:13:57 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: arhant021

its kinda hard to bel that there s been hardly any inputs from Indians on this post..kinda proves my point..hardly ny ppl from my country into this l/s..



No, with all due respect, your logic is faulty.
The majority of people who interact on CM on the other side never come to the discussion forums.

As a matter of fact: yours is the second post from someone from India today:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_4419620/tm.htm

The advice offered there was pretty good so you might want to check it out.



LafayetteLady -> RE: bdsm in India (4/7/2013 6:25:42 PM)

As I told you two months ago when you originally posted this...Set your search parameter to "India" There are several pages of people.

All your post proves is that those people don't post on this side, not that they don't exist.

So basically, it means that you need to do the work yourself. Set your search parameters correctly and start looking.



littlewonder -> RE: bdsm in India (4/7/2013 7:31:30 PM)

Seems to be quite a lot who are posting from India of the same problems. Maybe you should do a search on the forums and talk to them. Sounds like ya'll need to get together.



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