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MistressOfGa -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 6:03:53 AM)

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You have a pack of camels in the pic with you and yellowed teeth


You might be a redneck..............lmao!
 
When I first read this line about the pack of camels, I thought you were talking about having a pack of animals in the picture with him rotf!!
 
Having first cup of coffee...Morning!! lol




zero69u2 -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 6:04:54 AM)

Phoneix and i thought YKIOJNMK (*your kink is okay just not my kink*) was one of the cornerstones of being conscience and accepting of differing viewpoints.

you make a good point on pictures instantly giving you insight into a person's character or flaws that instantly end the possible new relationship. picture worth a 1000 words..

I love fat women.. but i don't reject skinny women just because they are too skinny for me. I could only imagine the email response  
"Sorry Honey, I only date women over 200 lbs with DD or larger breasts. you just don't meet my expectations of large and lovely. i'm sorry i'm a smoker i just can't tolerate non-smokers you've been elimidated.."  I'm a bit more accepting on the looks department.. i'm not ron jeremy.. i can't be picky about which porn star is going to be in my fantasy. but i can be quite picky on what scene i'm doing in the movie. :) but after talking online or phone. I can make decisions on fetish compatiability and narrow the field based on actually getting to know them a bit.





zero69u2 -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 6:09:52 AM)

Wulfchyld quote "Just look at it this way man. They are all sitting here replying to your post while they are nekkid.  That’s my story and I am sticking to it. "

Now that's funny i don't care who ya are.. :) git-her-done in the morning..
*drinks my Mr.Lipton tea and wakes up*





MochaMistress -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 6:13:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mindtwister

What is it with some submissives (or self-proclaimed slaves) who write to you asking to "chat" and when you tell them politely that you are not interested and why you don't believe you are compatible in first place, they freak out and simply can't handle it? Makes you wonder. I suppose, that is exactly what happens to some subs ... but does that make us even?


Im going to have to agree with most of the other post. That its a people thing not just a submissive thing.  Immaturity doesnt identify with a particular age, gender or kink.




MrrPete -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 6:23:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hhhkane

It's not just with subs, it's with some Doms as well.I used to be polite in rejecting people but they are so immature that they can't accept rejection in an adult manner. That is why, I've given up with the polite reply. Now I just don't reply back when I'm not interested. It is those people that ruin it for others that truly deserve an explanation just as common coutesy.

It seems it doesn't matter how well I write to someone I don't even get the courteous "no thank you."
Even when I recently gave a compliment to someone on the boards there was no reply.

Are you going to let the wannabes, HNGs and jerks dictate how you reply to Doms?




KnightofMists -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 6:54:07 AM)

mmmmmmm I feel cheated.... I never get emails like that




zumala -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 7:08:02 AM)

I get a lot of strange and/or inappropriate mails myself.  However, unless it's REALLY rude, I generally give a short, polite response.  The person who wrote and addressed me as Hot Slut, did not get a reply.  He'd have gotten a slap upside the head had he walked up to me RL and addressed me as such.
 
Sometimes even a polite no is responded to in an insane fashion.  I've even had some people who just popped up out of nowhere, said something mean, and then blocked me.  I still haven't figured that one out.  Why abuse a perfect stranger?  Perhaps they (flattering myself here) think my photo is too good-looking and therefore I must be a guy posing as a female submissive?  Or perhaps I'm not 'real' because I'm monogamous?  *shrugs*  Who knows?
 
zuma




MistressOfGa -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 7:15:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: zero69u2

Phoneix and i thought YKIOJNMK (*your kink is okay just not my kink*) was one of the cornerstones of being conscience and accepting of differing viewpoints.

you make a good point on pictures instantly giving you insight into a person's character or flaws that instantly end the possible new relationship. picture worth a 1000 words..

I love fat women.. but i don't reject skinny women just because they are too skinny for me. I could only imagine the email response  
"Sorry Honey, I only date women over 200 lbs with DD or larger breasts. you just don't meet my expectations of large and lovely. i'm sorry i'm a smoker i just can't tolerate non-smokers you've been elimidated.."  I'm a bit more accepting on the looks department.. i'm not ron jeremy.. i can't be picky about which porn star is going to be in my fantasy. but i can be quite picky on what scene i'm doing in the movie. :) but after talking online or phone. I can make decisions on fetish compatiability and narrow the field based on actually getting to know them a bit.


Zero,

I am not a small woman, but I have had emails saying exactly that. I am not big enough for them.
 
I am a non smoker, I choose to not have a submissive who smokes. It is my preference.  I do not want someone who tastes like an ashtray when I kiss them.
 
Oh, I smoked for 33 years. I quit 3 years ago.
 
Like I said, we are all looking for that perfect person. Whether he/she fits into the mold of what a "perfect" person should be or not.
 
Edited to add: IMO, Ron Jeremy is not good looking at all. NO part of him is good looking <g>




Submotive -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 8:29:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mindtwister

What is it with some submissives (or self-proclaimed slaves) who write to you asking to "chat" and when you tell them politely that you are not interested and why you don't believe you are compatible in first place, they freak out and simply can't handle it? Makes you wonder. I suppose, that is exactly what happens to some subs ... but does that make us even?

[sm=hewah.gif] Ah - freak out - le freak se chic. Only subs? ha ha ha ha. Okay, i'm done being sarcastic. People are people - period. And you expected?????




enigmabrat -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 10:51:18 AM)

Im very shy here and i send out very few e-mails to others that I am interested to talk, That is why it is very hurtfull to get NO reply back Id rather get a nasty fuck off then no reply at all (which I added to the end of my messages "please message me back even if it is only to say f' off) and yet there are still many that dont reply. While its upsetting to get a rejection message and Iv gotten many I dont get all out of joint in fact I dont even message back after a rejection after all whats the point, if they werent nasty or didnt say anything hurtfull to me I just let it drop at that. People that get nasty about it arent really worth the effert and you should just ignore them




ArchangelMichael -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 11:25:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

mmmmmmm I feel cheated.... I never get emails like that


Yeah, I'm with you on that one! Maybe it's because I don't live in Hollywood and have a profile that makes me look like I'm a producer or actor?

To the OP: I wonder if these are aspiring actresses who think they can use you to get into the movie business. I know that your profile doesn't indicate it, but your picture and location imply it. I say this because it seems like MOST male dominants do not get a multitude of responses and chat requests from female submissives.

EDIT: Just as I was writing this, I got a message from a female submissive in Maine who told me how much she loves me. I don't know anyone who lives in Maine. Be careful what you ask for, right?




LaTigresse -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 11:35:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Just look at it this way man. They are all sitting here replying to your post while they are nekkid.
 
That’s my story and I am sticking to it.


no no NOOOOOO!!!!!!!! I refuse to imagine everyone that writes to me is doing so naked!!

"the horror, oh the horror"




enigmabrat -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 1:15:50 PM)

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Just look at it this way man. They are all sitting here replying to your post while they are nekkid.
 
That’s my story and I am sticking to it.



Giggles now theres the thoughts nightmares are made off!!!
(Hijacks the thread for the moment)
How many of you sit at your PC and write to people here nude??




irishbynature -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 1:56:15 PM)

I agree with Julia. Vanilla/Sub/Dom ect...when it comes to playing games, anyone can fall prey to another's BS.[:)]




Tamerofwild1s -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 2:07:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

quote:

You have a pack of camels in the pic with you and yellowed teeth


You might be a redneck..............lmao!
 
When I first read this line about the pack of camels, I thought you were talking about having a pack of animals in the picture with him rotf!!
 
Having first cup of coffee...Morning!! lol


hey hey hey .. just cause I got a house with wheeels and a truck that don't .. doesn't mean I smoke camels dern it

GIT RRRRRR DUNNNNN




Proprietrix -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 2:12:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mindtwister
What is it with some submissives (or self-proclaimed slaves) who write to you asking to "chat" and when you tell them politely that you are not interested and why you don't believe you are compatible in first place, they freak out and simply can't handle it?


See now, this is exactly why I have no qualms about not responding/totally ignoring people I'm not interested in.




Tamerofwild1s -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 2:16:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: enigmabrat

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Just look at it this way man. They are all sitting here replying to your post while they are nekkid.
 
That’s my story and I am sticking to it.



Giggles now theres the thoughts nightmares are made off!!!
(Hijacks the thread for the moment)
How many of you sit at your PC and write to people here nude??



UHHH ... hmmm .... not me ..... lmfaoooooooo




Arpig -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 2:17:04 PM)

Maybe they felt your reply wasn't as polite as you thought it was...or maybe they are just very demanding subs. I wouldn't know, as it has never happened to me...I never get the chance to turn anybody down........[:(]


P.S. before people start asking me to chat just to prove me wrong...the collarme chat doesn't work on my computer [;)]




LaTigresse -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 2:20:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: enigmabrat

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Just look at it this way man. They are all sitting here replying to your post while they are nekkid.
 
That’s my story and I am sticking to it.



Giggles now theres the thoughts nightmares are made off!!!
(Hijacks the thread for the moment)
How many of you sit at your PC and write to people here nude??



uhhhhmmmmmmmmmm.......I must admit, I have been known to........... BUT just because I am often nude in my home!




catize -> RE: What is it with some subs .... (6/21/2006 2:52:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: enigmabrat

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Just look at it this way man. They are all sitting here replying to your post while they are nekkid.
 
That’s my story and I am sticking to it.



Giggles now theres the thoughts nightmares are made off!!!
(Hijacks the thread for the moment)
How many of you sit at your PC and write to people here nude??


I only write to people if they are nude.........




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