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Isabellalee -> RE: Need some help from a real Mistress.... (4/2/2013 1:52:18 PM)
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Hello,
I think that when you find the right Mistress you will start feeling a lot better. I remember when I first started thinking about being a Domina, I did not really understand what it meant, or how to find the people that could understand me. It was not until I started going to a alternative club, that harbored all the Goths, we called it the Bat Cave, that I discovered where I belonged. I guess we will never really know if your choices will lead you to ending the confusion your feeling about your need to submit, just as I don't know everything that lead me to being a Dominatrix. What I can tell you is that when a person can give themselves to someone else and trust them to live these things out in real life, it will change your whole perception on the world. Now, the concept of role playing, which is really in the heart of all the different Fantasies we live out in our sessions, you have to realize that when you step into what I call your character, then it gets easier and easier to let go of all the psychological stuff that hinders us from expressing ourselves and let's us start using our creative part of our imagination. It's been a long road coming to all the different aspects of the BD/SM community, and learning about all the variety's of Kink there really is out there to explore, but, it was certainly worth it!!!! Don't give up, you will find the right partner someday to do these things with, just be honest from the start or your going to end up very unhappy in the end. Might as well give every potential partner the heads up about that one, you cant get told no forever!!! LOL Hope that helps,
Sinfully yours, Mistress Isabella Lee
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