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RE: Tips on Opening - 6/24/2006 8:06:40 PM

LadyMorgynn

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No, I don't think you should consult your shrink. I think you should sit down with your Dom and explain this, and find a way to work through it together. Maybe you can come up with some kind of place or scenario that could be a kind of "comfort zone" for you to help you to communicate with him openly during those times, until you begin to open up more naturally.

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ORIGINAL: babysburnin

I should probably consult a shrink - but you may have better answers... LOL

I'm having difficulty "opening-up" emotionally with my Dom. HE is the most amazing person...he deserves it. But, I've been hurt in the past (emotionally from a past non-Dom relationship). It's all me ... I'm still guarded and I don't want to be.

My intuition and heart say, "Be Free", but my mind...damn mind!

Any advice???