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strapon angle and distance - 2/21/2013 10:09:49 AM   
xwhitesx


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Status: offline 		This is a genuine question, not wank fodder (I can do that on my own).
My girlfriend likes to use a strapon on me sometimes and while it is neither very long nor very wide, most times it is enjoyable however on occasion it feels like it is pushing bone and is painful if pushed even a little. We would like any input on what is causing it or what we can do differently.
Thanks
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RE: strapon angle and distance - 2/21/2013 2:36:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		You're looking for a series of instructional videos called "Bend Over Boyfriend".


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RE: strapon angle and distance - 2/21/2013 2:48:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Use a softer dildo?

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RE: strapon angle and distance - 2/21/2013 5:58:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Advise her to drop the running start.

Gotta work up to that.

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RE: strapon angle and distance - 2/21/2013 6:14:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: xwhitesx

This is a genuine question, not wank fodder (I can do that on my own).
My girlfriend likes to use a strapon on me sometimes and while it is neither very long nor very wide, most times it is enjoyable however on occasion it feels like it is pushing bone and is painful if pushed even a little. We would like any input on what is causing it or what we can do differently.
Thanks


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RE: strapon angle and distance - 2/21/2013 9:11:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Might she be making contact with your coccyx bone? Some people's are longer than others. Alter angles.

< Message edited by Duskypearls -- 2/21/2013 9:12:02 PM >

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RE: strapon angle and distance - 2/21/2013 9:19:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I just searched the phrase "bend over boyfriend." It has a lot of hits you'll find useful, including links to the vids LadyPact mentioned.

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RE: strapon angle and distance - 2/22/2013 12:13:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		It seems to be the angle. I'm guessing she is much shorter, and you're bending down is of not low enough for her.
My suggestions: start with lots of lube; maybe you go on top, instead of her trying to have her hips at the same height/higher than yours; bend over pillows, and have her kneel behind you, poking (lol) downard, instead of straight, or upward.

And what LP said.
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You're looking for a series of instructional videos called "Bend Over Boyfriend".

Good luck, M

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RE: strapon angle and distance - 2/22/2013 5:37:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
You're looking for a series of instructional videos called "Bend Over Boyfriend".


Googling, I find these "Bend over Boyfriend" videos.
Are they the ones you bespeak of?
Dr. Queen?
http://xhamster.com/user/Betty4You/posts/117600.html
http://xhamster.com/movies/872654/bend_over_boyfriend_5.html

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RE: strapon angle and distance - 2/22/2013 6:44:37 AM   
Pyramus


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Status: offline 		I'm guessing the angle 'cuz LOTS BIGGER stuff has been shoved into the tunnel before!

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RE: strapon angle and distance - 2/22/2013 7:05:31 AM   
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RE: strapon angle and distance - 2/22/2013 10:20:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		It might be the angle. My partner is bent over doggy style and I find, if his rear isn't up high enough, it doesn't work as well because I'm tall.

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RE: strapon angle and distance - 2/23/2013 11:54:15 AM   
xwhitesx


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Status: offline 		Thank you for your input to help out with a different input. We watched the BOB videos and they were helpful so thank you for pointing me in the right direct and also for the positional advice.
The trig lesson didn't really help but thanks anyway.

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