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ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/22/2013 6:37:42 AM   
SweetAquiescense


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Status: offline 		Is there such a thing? I don't like pain, humiliation, or disrespect, yet I want someone to take control, tease and pleasure me, while they offer me financial gifts. I'm entirely new to this world, and wonder if I'm even a part of it... please help me understand if I'm in the right place....
Thanks to all!
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RE: ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/22/2013 6:57:54 AM   
poise


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Status: offline 		I certainly wouldn't call what you described "submission".
The fact that you want payment AND sexual pleasures sounds more like prostitution to me,
although not all prostitutes enjoy the actual physical exchange.
Tell us please, what is it about your wishes that led you to believe they relate to BDSM?

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RE: ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/22/2013 7:10:45 AM   
HoldinOn


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Status: offline 		I was thinking she was looking for more of sugar daddy. But that is a type of prostitution I guess.

And sweetaquiescense, if you are accepting payment, you are working for them. Therefor, of course they are the one in control. Think of it that way and maybe you will find some financial sub who will cater to your pleasures.

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RE: ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/22/2013 7:21:52 AM   
theshytype


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Status: offline 		From my point of view, nothing about what your seeking screams sub to me. Quite the opposite, really.
As a sub, my priority is that his needs or desires are met. If he wants to tease and pleasure me, that's his choice.
Are you at all dominant? If not, then maybe you are looking for a sugar daddy that's into kink?

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RE: ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/22/2013 8:16:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SweetAquiescense

Is there such a thing? I don't like pain, humiliation, or disrespect, yet I want someone to take control, tease and pleasure me, while they offer me financial gifts. I'm entirely new to this world, and wonder if I'm even a part of it... please help me understand if I'm in the right place....
Thanks to all!


Yes, there are people that engage in D/s and never engage in BDSM. However, your rampant focus on yourself, your orgasm, and your wallet pretty much mean that you're a kept piece of fluff, not a submissive.


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RE: ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/22/2013 1:38:14 PM   
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RE: ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/22/2013 1:43:09 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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Ill be honest, OP...based on what you said, I would not use the word "slave" to define you for sure. I honestly wouldnt even use the word "submissive" to describe you either. All I got was "me, me, me, what I want, what I get, what I receive" and absolutely nothing at all about what you yourself give in return. Im just being completely straight up with you based on what I read.

Although I will be honest in saying that the visual images in my mind of this do inspire a fit of the chuckles. I can see it now...

"ooh, yes, my pet...you are going to do what I say, when I say it, and do it exactly how I want you to do it....but first, let me give you this prepaid credit card and fancy watch"

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RE: ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/22/2013 4:24:47 PM   
littlewonder


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ORIGINAL: SweetAquiescense

Is there such a thing? I don't like pain, humiliation, or disrespect, yet I want someone to take control, tease and pleasure me, while they offer me financial gifts. I'm entirely new to this world, and wonder if I'm even a part of it... please help me understand if I'm in the right place....
Thanks to all!



Sounds like you're looking for a sugardaddy? There are sites out there for that.


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RE: ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/22/2013 7:56:49 PM   
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1fiUDzDcXKY

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RE: ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/23/2013 12:36:43 AM   
LafayetteLady


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Status: offline 		She "lives for" GETTING massages! That makes for a great submissive or slave, lol.

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RE: ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/23/2013 5:43:15 AM   
TNDommeK


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And sweetaquiescense, if you are accepting payment, you are working for them.


This is simply not true. Well, in my case anyway.
OP, I'm not sure what I would classify you as, I think I agree with others who say sugar baby.

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RE: ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/23/2013 7:04:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder


quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetAquiescense

Is there such a thing? I don't like pain, humiliation, or disrespect, yet I want someone to take control, tease and pleasure me, while they offer me financial gifts. I'm entirely new to this world, and wonder if I'm even a part of it... please help me understand if I'm in the right place....
Thanks to all!



Sounds like you're looking for a sugardaddy? There are sites out there for that.



Those sites are 10x worse than the other side. Joined one for a month and came here after a nice guy said I'd like this place better.

I had a weirdo from a sugar daddy site message me and say, "Wash Daddy's ass crack for $200." Yeah, right. What am I, your mother?

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RE: ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/23/2013 1:47:53 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I used to be on those sites years ago. I never had any strange messages. I just had ones who fit what I was seeking and had money but I just wasn't attracted to them physically. I need to be attracted to someone physically to even be with them in any form.

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RE: ecstasy oriented sub and financial slave/master? - 2/24/2013 11:26:56 AM   
xssve


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