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Rochsub2009 -> RE: cuckold (2/26/2013 10:58:15 AM)
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ORIGINAL: njlauren
It is a weird one, it is a combination of stereotypes and humiliation. The stereotype is that all black guys are well hung and are somehow nothing but massive fuck machines, along with the stereotype that all they want to do is fuck white women (that one is as old as blacks being brought to the US as slaves, the big fear always of the slave owners was that the slaves were going to revolt and the first they would do is despoil their womenfolk...kind of ironic, considering what ole massah did to the women slaves). The humiliation is where the racism really comes in, it is the 'inferior' man (in terms of being black) fucking the 'superior man's' wife, which humiliates him, especially since of course the white wife is going to go delirious being fucked by that huge cock. Read some of the stories on a site like Literorica in the interracial or loving wives section, it is eye opening. In effect, the black guy is a gigantic fetish object, not a person (not all that different then the way many men view transwomen, albeit in a different way)
Bingo!!!! NJLauren nailed it.
I hear this same type of "I want my wife to cuckold me with a black bull" crap all the time. It's a common fantasy among some male s-types. The problem is that they don't realize that this behavior makes them more of a fetishist than a submissive. There really isn't anything submissive about their behavior. In fact, by dictating who the woman must have sex with, the "sub" is actually taking the dominant role.
Here is a comment that I made in a similar thread on FetLife. I'm going to copy and paste it rather than retype the entire thing. But basically, the male "cucks" were saying that most cuckolds only like it if there is a black bull involved. One of the "cucks" in the group wrote the following when one of the Dommes in the group challenged him about the necessity of a black bull:
"cuckolds don't feel the same as you. cuckolding is about humiliation and emasculation. cock size is king in this world as that is a male thing. the single source of a man's vulnerability and insecurity. black cock plays off the myth all men grew up....you are welcome to fuck anyone you want. just don't expect a typical cuck to be really interested when you do. i would rather watch reruns of i love lucy than be bored to death watching you fuck some guy with a small dick or any race, or any white guy. you can cum to your hearts content. just leave me out of it. i have NO interest. it is NOT sexy or sexual at ALL."
In response to his comment, this is what I wrote:
Wow! Can't you see that you've just demonstrated a textbook example of "topping from the bottom"? You've essentially said that you don't care if your Domme prefers to fuck white men, or men with small to medium cocks. Her preferences are unimportant, and instead, she has to fuck only the men that you dictate as appropriate partners for her.
What if your wife/girlfriend happens to ride the subway every morning with a handsome white attorney, and after making small talk with him, she often finds herself thinking, "I'd really like to fuck him". Should she not be allowed to act on that desire simply because it doesn't fulfill your fetish? If she isn't allowed to choose who she wants to fuck, and YOU get to dictate who her partners will be, then who is actually in charge in this relationship? Moreover, if you get to pick who she has sex with, and her preferences are irrelevant, doesn't that actually make you her pimp?
IMO, there is no "one true way" to do cuckold relationships. For some people it's about humilation. For others it's about control. For some it's about big cocks. For some it's about maintaining sexual freedom. Cuckolding means different things to different people.
Personally, I get sick of all of the Black bull stereotypes. But that's because I'm black, and I don't like being fetishized simply because of my race. Nevertheless, I recognize that many people enjoy the idea of their wife being fucked by a Black man. So if that's your thing, then more power to you.
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