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slaveloser69 -> is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 5:53:21 PM)
Hi all, I haven't been able to meet any dominant woman in my area and I was thinking of paying to join ALT.com, is this a good or bad idea? Have people had sucess with it?

AlittleCrazy098 -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 5:57:36 PM)
Dude, you live in new york where there are probably 400 communities out there. Why waste your money and time on any of these sites?

DesFIP -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 5:59:35 PM)
Have you joined your local community?

DarkSteven -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 6:00:30 PM)
Alt.com used to be an excellent site. About ten years ago. It's crap now.

slaveloser69 -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 6:01:56 PM)
I dont belong to any groups, and I don't really know of any. I don't live in the City, I live outside of it, :(

Level -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 6:04:42 PM)
Like Steven said, alt used to be a decent site; now, meh. Hell, give it a shot, but yeah, find some locals and a munch, you'll likely have better luck.

slaveloser69 -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 6:05:29 PM)
So should I try for a month or try to find a group near my location?

AlittleCrazy098 -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 6:06:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveloser69 I dont belong to any groups, and I don't really know of any. I don't live in the City, I live outside of it, :( If you go on google and type in BDSM New york or go on fetlif.com make an account and search for events near you then you will be able to find out all the information you need.

breagha -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 6:08:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AlittleCrazy098 Dude, you live in new york where there are probably 400 communities out there. Why waste your money and time on any of these sites? his profile just says he lives in NY. That doesn't necessarily mean NYC. i live in NY as well. nearest city is an hour away. Nearest group is also an hour away. OP- Fetlife is a good site for finding local people and munches/groups. i've never used alt.com. and i like this site.

slaveloser69 -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 6:11:34 PM)
Hey thanks, I live in Westchester NY..

breagha -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 6:11:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveloser69 I dont belong to any groups, and I don't really know of any. I don't live in the City, I live outside of it, :( i used fetlife to find somewhat local groups. i live in a part of NY that is... well it is wilderness. on FL i found a (somewhat ) local group to join. that would be my suggestion.

breagha -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 6:13:30 PM)
i'm sure that you could find something near westchester on FL in the groups. don't you love that people see NY and automatically think the City?

LafayetteLady -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 6:13:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breagha quote: ORIGINAL: AlittleCrazy098 Dude, you live in new york where there are probably 400 communities out there. Why waste your money and time on any of these sites? his profile just says he lives in NY. That doesn't necessarily mean NYC. i live in NY as well. nearest city is an hour away. Nearest group is also an hour away. OP- Fetlife is a good site for finding local people and munches/groups. i've never used alt.com. and i like this site. LOL. Don't you love that? Because the state doesn't exist outside of the city, lol. He is listed as 45 miles from me. That could indicate NYC or like Poughkepsie (sp?).

Level -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 6:13:48 PM)
Take breagha's advice, OP. And good luck.

slaveloser69 -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 6:16:39 PM)
alright, guess ill start looking// thanks

Level -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 6:26:53 PM)
http://domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=org&uid=default&state=NEW+YORK&view_records=View+Records&ww=on This might help as well.

littlewonder -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 7:23:16 PM)
There are lots of groups in NJ as well depending how far you are away from them in NY. I don't know where Westchester is but I'm sure if you do a search of Jersey groups you might be able to find something there. As for alt, the only thing I ever found it helpful for was if you were looking for porn or casual fucking. If that's what you're seeking, then yeah, alt is perfect.

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 7:35:15 PM)
Alt.com was good years and years ago, but then they went to a pay site, and you can't contact any one unless you paid. nor look at profiles.

LadyPact -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/24/2013 7:47:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Alt.com used to be an excellent site. About ten years ago. It's crap now. This. Alt used to be a very good source for meeting people in your local area. Now, Fet is much better at achieving that goal.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: is ALT.COM good? (2/25/2013 6:42:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveloser69 Hey thanks, I live in Westchester NY.. Slaveloser sounds slightly wankerish, though from these posts, it seems you are not. Sometimes, the nic/handle you choose to go with, matters a good deal to potential suitors. M

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