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LadyPact -> RE: Seeking a fem sub. (2/26/2013 5:14:13 AM)
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Welcome to the forums.
Since you asked, I'll give the profile review a shot. Please understand that there may be some cultural differences in My opinion.
Two things in your favor. Your age and you are height/weight proportionate.
Here are some things that are going to make your search challenging:
Due to your career, you are in the 'mostly net and phone' zone. Not a real popular proposition considering you are the seller in a buyer's market. When female submissives are so sought after, you have to show why you have more to offer than somebody who can give a woman adequate time in the same room to build a relationship.
You've got kinks that include mental aspects but you say nothing of your higher education or experience in prior dynamics that show you know how to prevent harming someone. You're looking for a "new" sub but don't say anything about your prior experience as a Dominant. (How many years in the lifestyle, etc.) Get something in there that lets people know why you are safe to play with mental kinks and not just some Tom, Dick, or Harry that thinks this stuff is hot.
You appear to have no community ties that are BDSM related. (This is where the cultural difference may lie. Both My husband and My sub are military and that doesn't prevent us from attending munches and events.) Yes, there are a lot of people who engage in BDSM privately, rather than associate with other kinky people. However, when you don't, you lose the reassurance that a community reputation can bring to a potential submissive.
You've got a journal entry that says you've been going to take better photos that was posted in November. It obviously wasn't important enough to you to follow through on that. Saying something and not doing it is not a good trademark when a submissive is looking for someone where she can trust his word.
There are a number of threads on the forums that discuss how to write a good profile. You may want to read up on those. Good luck.
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