sub4hire
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She had absolutely no experience in the lifestyle, but has no reservations of trying anything new. I think the most important thing -I've- learned, is that 'It' (referring to the other thread) in a sub, slave, bottom, etc isn't something that you learn exactly, but rather it's part of who you are. 'It' seems to be compatibility, and not just in negotiations, tastes on a sexual interest chart, or a mutual enjoyment of leather. It means enjoying each others cooking, each others music, or just plain each other's company. Again, am speaking strictly from the standard one on one, run of the mill D/s typie relationship without a lot of frills (can't wait for the explosion.) I suppose the rest belongs on the 'converting vanilla' thread(s) that I am sure is somewhere on this site. I totally agree with this. Yet, I'm still not so sure if we are born homosexual or it is a learned trait. Imagine that. Yet, I know I was born a submissive. I tried my hardest to change who I was for years. Didn't work. So decided to give into myself and be who I was born to be.
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