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Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 2/28/2013 12:20:18 AM   
sk8mma1023


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I was wondering if any Mistress's or any guys have tried the Jail house m200 chastity device?..

I had the CB3000 before this one but did not like it, too many pieces, easy to slip out of, and got pinched a lot..I noticed with this one there was less pieces and looks a little easier and way more put together. Plus the fact it is not plastic is exciting as well..I just ordered it a couple days ago and should get it thursday of next week..Any things to look forward to?

I have not used a chastity device for more then a day at a time, but the woman i am in a relationship with is excited about holding me in it..as am I!

Any suggestions on what to expect for the near future?

Thanks all!
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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 2/28/2013 12:28:28 AM   
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I think you should expect to change from a dominant to a submissive....

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 2/28/2013 12:33:29 AM   
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I was confused what you were talking about at first lol..but then i caught it..I don't know why it was like that but its changed now! haha Thanks : - )

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 2/28/2013 2:18:50 AM   
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I think you should post orientation-specific questions like this in "Ask a Mistress".

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 2/28/2013 3:31:08 AM   
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I'm not familiar with that device, however metal is preferred for any long term use.

There is no way to sterilize a plastic chastity device, and no matter how clean you keep it, over time it will smell.

Having said that, from what I've heard from male subs, metal is less forgiving than plastic in the fitting department. What fits you perfectly won't do for someone else and vice versa. So be prepared for that. Even the best and most expensive devices which are custom made are known for having fitting issues.

Also, the ring that goes under your nut sack should (initially) be as large as possible w/o you slipping out. If it's too tight there's going to have a LOT of friction, which will chafe you, and could potentially break the skin.

Also, use plenty of baby oil or some other kind of lubricant.

Once you get used to the larger ring, you can work your way down to smaller.

Also, I assume your mistress will be your key holder - make sure and have lots of discussions about what this will mean for both of you.







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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 2/28/2013 12:04:02 PM   
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I was going to put it in ask a Mistress, but i wanted other males opinions also because they actually wore the device and knows the process well. ( was not sure if the males would check the ask a Mistress section)

@chatte.. I appreciate your response..Yea that was also part of the issue i had with the previous device i used..I also read that metal was less forgiving as far as when you get yourself excited..which is both scary and exciting at the same time for me lol.

I think with the one i bought it only comes with one ring, but i know you can buy more as needed ( did not think that one through as much as i should have, should have bought all the sizes and see what best fit)

I am not too sure on how to maintain the best hygiene with it, but have been doing research and will just learn as i go.

Yea i am a little worried about the mental aspect of the key holding i will admit. My girlfriend has always had a dominant personality and knows about the lifestyle..but we are just starting to get into the actual Mistress/submissive lifestyle. I am trying to explain that it is more than just a sexual thing, but a mental and much more. I am thinking about getting her a book to possibly read on the subject?

but she and I are both excited and look forward to the future. : - )

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 2/28/2013 2:11:03 PM   
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Any suggestions on what to expect for the near future?



I've tried a number of different devices, but haven't worn the Jailhouse M200, so I can't give you any info on how comfortable it is. However, I notice a few things about it that i like.

It is a more "Open air" type of device, so it won't cause the sweating that the CBxxxx series devices cause. Also, because it is a more open device, hygiene is going to be much easier. Trying to stay fresh and clean while wearing a CB6000 is almost impossible. If you were using a CB6000, your Domme would have to let you out of it every day or two just to clean and keep the stink at bay.

I also like the metal design. Metal gives a subliminal message of security. Like the bars of a jail. It makes you feel locked down tight. Whereas plastic seems escapable.

Once you've worn it for a few days (or weeks), please stop back and tell us how comfortable it is. Others may want to try that device in the future, so it will be good to have your feedback on record.

Good luck!
-Roch

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 2/28/2013 3:23:10 PM   
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Yea I felt like the CB would be for temporary play uses or something, due to the hygiene issues, unless like you said you got let out daily to clean it..

I also like with the jailhouse's openness, so i am excited to try it out!

will post something back once i have tried it for a couple days!

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 2/28/2013 6:06:52 PM   
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If your girlfriend is actually interested in doing this along with you, rather than you just taking her along for the ride, she is going to want to be educated on the subject. I would recommend a book called "The Family Jewels".


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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 3/1/2013 1:55:44 AM   
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She is very interested..I suggested to try a book but did not know of any particular ones. I will tell her about this one !

Thanks : )

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 3/1/2013 3:32:18 AM   
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Not being a guy and never having had a male sub, I have a question...
Can't those chastity devices be run through a dishwasher to clean them?

Just curious
Luci

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 3/1/2013 4:35:23 AM   
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my pet, has a cb3000, it pinches and chafes, so we are looking into getting a Birdlocked its silicone, so it can be sterilized.
He cant use a metal one for working week because he has to go thru metal detectors every day. Plus he finds the rigidity of the hard plastic to be beyond painful when he sleeps( another reason for the silicone)
Id like to get one for when he is away/weekends. just for the added weight/look/ feel.
I like the look of the Jailhouse...
This is another one, Im thinking about
http://www.amazon.com/Pipedream-Products-Metal-Worx-Cage/dp/B0076H0NF2/ref=pd_sxp_f_i
Adding good thoughts about Family Jewels too.
Just a couple of cents:)

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 3/1/2013 8:26:51 AM   
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This past summer, a regular play partner brought a CB6000 and locked me in it and with a request to wear it for 24 hrs. Being the first time I had been placed in temp chastity was an interesting experience, though I found that after a few hours of wearing it, the ring which sits at the base of the shaft started to chafe in one area. I toss and turn a lot when I sleep and it proved to be so irritating that I got the key and removed the device.

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 3/1/2013 9:05:10 AM   
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quote:

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Can't those chastity devices be run through a dishwasher to clean them?



Yes. But do you want the accumulated grime from his sweaty penis getting all over your dishes and silverware?

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 3/1/2013 10:23:21 AM   
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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucifyre

Can't those chastity devices be run through a dishwasher to clean them?



Yes. But do you want the accumulated grime from his sweaty penis getting all over your dishes and silverware?



it wouldn't be relevant in this house, I do all my dishes by hand.
and with the new dishwashers having a heat feature, all tha stuff would get washed off anyway

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 3/1/2013 10:24:45 AM   
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quote:

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Can't those chastity devices be run through a dishwasher to clean them?



Yes. But do you want the accumulated grime from his sweaty penis getting all over your dishes and silverware?


If they already got cockbreath, whats the difference?  Or am I the only one?

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 3/1/2013 2:04:27 PM   
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I think you should post orientation-specific questions like this in "Ask a Mistress".


Or in the equipment forums perhaps?

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 3/1/2013 2:58:50 PM   
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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TAFKAA

I think you should post orientation-specific questions like this in "Ask a Mistress".


Or in the equipment forums perhaps?


Geez, why are you guys being such sticklers? This is General BDSM Discussion. A question about a chastity device can go here.

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 3/2/2013 3:16:09 AM   
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Lol..Thanks rochsub! : )

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RE: Just bough new CHASTITY device..opinions? - 3/3/2013 5:23:22 AM   
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quote:

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Not being a guy and never having had a male sub, I have a question...
Can't those chastity devices be run through a dishwasher to clean them?

Just curious
Luci

Probably, the major issue then becomes burning your dish washer to keep the penis fungus away from the utensils.

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