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SlightlyScared -> Newbie from Leicester (England) (2/28/2013 2:11:51 PM)
Hello everyone! I'm Louise, I'm English and rather new to this sort of thing (BDSM and forum introductions both) I just responded to a thread I thought was interesting without thinking about the usual protocols, so I thought I'd better introduce myself fast so as to not make the wrong impression. I'm submissive and looking for a someone close to my age who can help me learn and explore myself. I'm hoping to find a Master in the long run but I've been warned by the friendly people who have messaged me that I shouldn't rush, as tempting as that would be and i should try to find someone to talk to and play with online, first. I live with my parents (having completed more time at Uni that is strictly necessary) and so I will tend to be online in after they have gone to bed. I'm certainly not ready for "that" conversation. I'm a paragraph kinda person when it comes to forums, it might be best to just apologies now and get it over with.

muhly22222 -> RE: Newbie from Leicester (England) (2/28/2013 2:53:11 PM)
Welcome to the forums, Louise! You absolutely shouldn't rush, but you don't need to play with anybody online either (assuming that "play with" means some sort of sexual play...if it doesn't, ignore all of this). I would expect that there are munches and groups who get together in your area, as well. You can use Google or Fetlife to find them. Best of luck to you!

SlightlyScared -> RE: Newbie from Leicester (England) (2/28/2013 3:02:24 PM)
Thanks muhly I'm a bit of a chicken when it comes to meeting new people, so I think meeting online people would be a start and work my way up to groups :-)

peppermint -> RE: Newbie from Leicester (England) (2/28/2013 4:06:53 PM)
Since you have problems meeting with new people you might wish to contact whoever runs the nearest munch to you. Often times they will meet with you one on one in a safe place before the munch. That lets you get to know someone from the munch so that when you go you will have someone to talk to, someone to sit near, and someone who will take you under her/her wing to make sure your first munch is comfortable for you. Welcome to collarme.

SlightlyScared -> RE: Newbie from Leicester (England) (2/28/2013 4:19:55 PM)
Thank you for your advice, it's a great idea :-)

maxwell22 -> RE: Newbie from Leicester (England) (3/4/2013 8:20:54 AM)
Hello dear louise,welcome,hope to find your right guy soon.yes this is strange and scary and we need to find someone who is confident and experienced.however we have to push our boundaries for progress in this way.sometimes pleasures are mixed with fears.maybe without fear there is no fun in BDSM.

andy1683 -> RE: Newbie from Leicester (England) (3/4/2013 8:39:34 AM)
I am new here to, I have found a lot of nice People on here, some have been a little nasty, but by far the one's that have answered my message have been a great help. but it's hard to break the ice. anyway that's the way it was for me.

TNDommeK -> RE: Newbie from Leicester (England) (3/4/2013 10:54:05 AM)
Hi and welcome.

OohAahMrs -> RE: Newbie from Leicester (England) (3/6/2013 3:53:28 AM)
Welcome SS hope you find someone soon, i'm sure the parents will be glad to see the back of you!

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