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New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/1/2013 6:55:52 PM   
mm0013


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I've recently discovered that BDSM fits me and my desires perfectly. I can't really say how I found this site but I have found alot of interesting info here. I'm a Black Dom always ready to meet female hoes, sluts, bitches and sub's. I would like to know what is the best way to navigate through this website to actually communicate with like minded individuals. An observation that I have made is that there are quite a few people who are really into titles. I may be kinky 24/7 but I don't have to be an asshole 24/7 because I'm playing a role. I know this site is comprised of genuine people. I'm new to the BDSM world and am curious is that common.
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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/1/2013 8:54:34 PM   
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Sorry, no hoes, sluts, or bitches around here.  We're just submissives who wish to be treated with respect by others.

Have a nice time here on Collarme...and welcome.

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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/1/2013 9:33:27 PM   
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I apologize for that. I didn't mean any disrespect. I should have worded that better

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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/1/2013 9:35:45 PM   
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Sub's get all the respect in the world from me.

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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/2/2013 1:52:05 AM   
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Welcome to the forums.

You know what they say about how many chances you get to make a first impression, right?



Edited to add - Not sure what the Department of Motor Vehicles has to do with this. I'm guessing it's a real specific kink.


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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/2/2013 3:04:25 AM   
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First to the OP, welcome to the forums. This is the discussion side of CM and it is actually a different web site called collarchat.com. Collarme.com (aka "the other side") is where people surf to meet female hoes, sluts, bitches and sub's


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Sorry, no hoes, sluts, or bitches around here.  We're just submissives who wish to be treated with respect by others.

Have a nice time here on Collarme...and welcome.

I beg to disagree. This place is loaded with them on both sides. Next thing you know, you're gonna' tell me people don't care about what kind of crisps people put up their bum?

(that was for LP of course)



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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/2/2013 5:30:09 AM   
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Welcome to the this side of collarme. Your initial approach is a bit crude to some (myself included), but there are plenty of people who call themselves hos, sluts, and bitches, and perhaps they'll like this very much.

Good luck, M

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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/4/2013 7:08:58 AM   
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DMV refers to DC, Maryland and Virginia

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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/4/2013 7:23:15 AM   
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Welcome to the forums.
The discussion side of CollarMe.

Question, when approaching a woman on the street for the 1st time. Would you call her a bitch, hoe, or slut when speaking to her and expect a positive reaction??



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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/4/2013 7:49:15 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mm0013

DMV refers to DC, Maryland and Virginia



There is a pretty active kink community in that area from what I understand. If you haven't already, I suggest googling "BDSM (your city, state)" and/or making a profile over at FetLife and looking up events in your area. FL is better equipped for that, but isn't set up for detailed searching for groups of people. It's kind of like facebook for the kink world. The profile side here is more searchable by specific criteria (i.e., women between the ages of 25-35 that identify as submissive or slaves within 100 miles of you).

And welcome to the discussion side. Think of this place as a kink-friendly pub where we chat about all kinds of stuff.

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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/4/2013 7:55:48 AM   
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DMV refers to DC, Maryland and Virginia


Only lived in the area for 50+ years, but I have never once heard that used for anything but Department of Motor Vehicles.

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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/4/2013 8:15:07 AM   
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No disrespect to anyone but if your over 50 then there are plenty of urban terms that you don't know anything about. Also I apologized for my title and have gone on record saying that I was wrong to use those terms to describe women. Though there are women who identify with those names. I was wrong cause this was an introduction thread and that's all I should have done. Also I have stated I'm new to this world. Thus I have made a few errors such as this thread. I didn't mean to start any contraversy. I have have read far worse threads that didn't receive half the negative comments mine has
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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/4/2013 8:20:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mm0013

No disrespect to anyone but if your over 50 then there are plenty of urban terms that you don't know anything about. .


Excellent point! But it will confuse people who are familiar with DMV to mean Department of Motor Vehicles.

And you did apologize for the bitches and hoes deal, but at least now I can piece together where both that and the DMV thing come from.
There are about a million and one groups. If you give me an idea which of the three areas you're from, I can probably help you out with good places to meet people closer to your own age and neighborhood.

In fact, private message me on the other side. There are things coming up this week that you definitely want to check out.

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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/4/2013 8:26:26 AM   
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It may surprise you to hear this but just because someone is over 50 doesnt mean they no longer have their finger on the pulse as to what is 'urban'.


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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/4/2013 8:47:35 AM   
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Collarme and Fetlife have their own unique advantages.I like Collarme because it does show me who is in my local area.I like Fetlife because it shows me the local events in my area.Also,I like Collarchat for the discussion groups.They all have their own advantages to me.

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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/4/2013 10:08:05 AM   
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I'm in my lower 30s and still learn new words. Urban, slang, and now text speak. They're always changing and so hard to keep up with.
I'd be lost without google.

Anyway, welcome OP!

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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/4/2013 11:46:19 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Notsweet


quote:

ORIGINAL: mm0013

DMV refers to DC, Maryland and Virginia


Only lived in the area for 50+ years, but I have never once heard that used for anything but Department of Motor Vehicles.



I've known it as the DMV area since I moved out here from California.



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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/4/2013 7:04:03 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Notsweet


quote:

ORIGINAL: mm0013

DMV refers to DC, Maryland and Virginia


Only lived in the area for 50+ years, but I have never once heard that used for anything but Department of Motor Vehicles.


It is generally used if you live in Montg. Co, PG, DC, Fairfax, Arlington...Kind of like, when I lived there "downtown" to us was DC...

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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/5/2013 9:12:09 AM   
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I'm glad that this is all cleared up and we can get back to welcoming the OP :)

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RE: New to the world of BDSM. Is the DMV in the house. - 3/5/2013 9:58:45 AM   
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I was with my girlfriend at the shop getting her car worked on, and she couldn't stop laughing at the KUMHO tire banner. Naturally, the next time she earned her release, I shouted "KUMMM-HO!"! It might have fucked up her orgasm a bit, but it was hilarious!

She got me playing WoW again, I had to switch faction and server. The next time I tore her ass up I shouted "FOR THE HORDE!" when I came. That pissed her off good, but we still laugh about it.


Welcome!

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