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New here and mostly new to the life style - 3/4/2013 4:53:35 PM

ricoh005

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Hello every one.

I am new here but not new to the life style. I had a sub for three years that relationship ended recently. I have to say we were both new to this but found each other anyway. For my entier adult life I have felt like I was a freak or something was wrong with me until we met. That's when I learned that there was nothing wrong with me at all I was and am a dom. All that being said what I learned form that relationship was that all dom and sub relatinships grow in different ways no two are alike I also learned that most of the time you live life as a couple in the vennela world and that you have to care really deeply about each other as people first.

I also have come to believe that the titles of master and slave have to be earned between the two people. I simply don't believe that every woman needs to call me master that's just silly nor would I want them to.

Ok so what is the point of all of my rambeling simply this I would like some pointers on how to meet people here. I have a profile and am not getting any hits really. Am I doing something wrong. I also noticed that there seems to be very few people on the site at least that I can see when I do a search.

Any advice or pointers would be great.

Thanks

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RE: New here and mostly new to the life style - 3/4/2013 7:26:15 PM

poise

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Welcome to the message board, Ricoh.
I think you may want to play around with your search parameters,
as it's hard to believe you aren't finding anyone here from California.

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RE: New here and mostly new to the life style - 3/4/2013 7:30:31 PM

Baroana

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Welcome.

I'm not a sub, so perhaps you should not pay too much mind to my opinion that your profile is off putting.

Standard advice, however, is that you should describe yourself and explain why a woman would be interested in you.

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RE: New here and mostly new to the life style - 3/5/2013 4:51:15 AM

ricoh005

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I will give that a WACK! And see what happens LOL thanks

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RE: New here and mostly new to the life style - 3/5/2013 5:06:15 AM

smartsub10

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ORIGINAL: Baroana

Welcome.

I'm not a sub, so perhaps you should not pay too much mind to my opinion that your profile is off putting.

Standard advice, however, is that you should describe yourself and explain why a woman would be interested in you.

Have to agree with this. There's really nothing about you and what you're offering besides some rough play. I was turned off by your description of a sub as a "stinker" to keep you on your toes. That sounds manipulative on the part of the sub/slave.

Welcome to the forums. Hope you'll stick around and read and post.

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RE: New here and mostly new to the life style - 3/6/2013 3:45:56 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome ric.

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