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Aileen68 -> RE: first meetings (6/29/2006 7:14:23 PM)
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ORIGINAL: diamonddreamlove
I have to admit to having had few encounters in the real world of D/s. Just came from one and have a few questions to ask other subs/slaves. When you have met someone found them very attractive physically and They have responded very well also and wish to see you again in a few days how do you feel. I came away thinking He has all these things going for Him gorgeous, calm soothing voice, knows what He is doing (as far as i know anyway) lol. And yet while the meeting was nice and had some light interesting play, i left feeling like i had just left a vanilla date that was ho hum. I got into the fun but something just didn't feel right at the good bye state. Do others have times like these and if so if you continue to see Him does it improve or should i just say damn nice but not for me and refuses further contact. I guess i just don't know how i should feel the other Doms i have met were either cool lets do this again and soon, and those have become wonderful play partners but not the One for me. Some of the other Doms i have met either i or they just did not want to get together again. I am just really puzzled at my grey response and wondering if that means don't waste my time or His. Or if it means He still has possibilities. Guess i am asking is this a normal feeling after a first meet while the other meetings have ended either black or white and i knew if i wished to spend time with them again. Any ideas out there would be greatly appreciated.
I think you're denying the chemistry factor. Sounds like you're trying to convince yourself that you have chemistry with this man when you know that you don't. You don't need to play to know, you can feel it over a cup of coffee.
If it's there then it's there. If it's not, it's not.
But then again...what do I know. For every person its completely different.
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