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Brand new dom need advice - 3/6/2013 4:11:22 AM

GoinToTieYouUp

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just recently started checking out dom sub stuff would love to be taught a few things about being a good dom

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RE: Brand new dom need advice - 3/6/2013 4:15:11 AM

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Hope it wasn't porn.

Welcome to the forums!

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RE: Brand new dom need advice - 3/6/2013 4:22:30 AM

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Go on the different boards here and read, and ask questions.

Welcome.

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

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RE: Brand new dom need advice - 3/6/2013 4:23:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: smartsub10

Hope it wasn't porn.

Welcome to the forums!

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

~~ Stone Temple Pilots

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RE: Brand new dom need advice - 3/6/2013 9:14:27 AM

WithBellsOn

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Safety first! Since your name references tying:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lr4EtgSS3qM

If you like hitting people too, learning where not to hit is important!

http://www.evilmonk.org/a/anatomy2.cfm

Last but not least, here's Jay Wiseman on breath play:

http://www.jaywiseman.com/SEX_BDSM_Breath_Closing_Argument.php

tl;dr: Don't do it.

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RE: Brand new dom need advice - 3/6/2013 10:18:16 AM

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I would suggest getting out to your local community. Check to see if there is a Next Gen group near you and also find yourself a mentor.

I would also suggest finding a few books on this list: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm

I personally recommend The Loving Dominant.

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