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Looking For An Online Submissive! (Webcam Required) - 3/8/2013 2:29:41 AM   
dom4sub247


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NOTE: I am only looking for FEMALES so NO MALES please.

I am 21 from the UK. I have been curious about this life for the past 2 years I can say and I have had subs and slaves in the past to gain knowledge and also experiment with online. I am now able to say that I like this more than I thought I would so I guess I am here looking for a sub or slave for LONG TERM! Online first and who knows where life will take us in the future. I do have experience so it's not like I don't know what I am doing.

In my vanilla life I am a deep, creative, passionate, romantic and a fair person. I write poetry and philosophy as I like to think about life and the un-known. I also DJ in my bedroom now and then as well as sampling music and so on. I also do like to draw and make things. I don't really learn from theoretical ways as I always will learn from practical as I am good with my hands. I also do enjoy learning about various new things which I don't know about. You can also help me learn new things as a Dom as no one is totally perfect and we all learn new things every day. I will also teach you things of what you may never knew about or was un-sure about.

I DON'T own any subs or slaves at the moment. You will be the only one I own as time will go by but if your bi and would like to do tasks with another girl then we can discuss this and see how we can do it.

As a Dom, I am fair but firm. I am also a loving and caring Dom where I will not just use you for my pleasure only but also satisfy you as we all need to be satisfied. After all, we all are human right? I will also be your friend as well as your Dom so if you ever need to talk to anyone about anything then I can be that certain someone :) I am a good guidance and advice giver so it's always here if you need it. Just speak up!

A webcam is required but of course we can work on the trust before you go on if you feel that way about it. I would also like you to take pictures of offline tasks and even reports with voice recordings if you can but we can work towards that. You don't have to show your face at first if you wish not to.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR IN A SUB/SLAVE:

I am looking for someone who is obedient, eager to learn and experiment, please her Dom and take commands. She must be willing to try out new things which we can discuss of what we both are happy about. She must also have a personality and a sense of humour. Someone fun, loving and who has a freaky side like me. I don't mind if you’re a beginner and do not know much. I will slowly lead you through the life and teach you and tell you what you need to know.

LIKES:

Orgasm
Orgasm Denial/Control
Edge Play
Bladder Control
Teasing
Humiliation
Degrading
Mild Pain
Cloth Pegs
Ice
Body Writing (If that's what you like)
Tasks
Dares
Punishments
How To Dress (If that's what you like)
Pussy Play
Clit Tease
Tits Play
Nipple Play/Tease
Cream
Ass Spanking
Pussy Spanking
Tits Spanking
Face Slapping (If that's what you like)
Pictures (When you’re ready)
Webcam (When you’re ready)
Voice Recordings (When you’re ready)

LIMITS:

Illegal
Permanent
Public
Pee
Scat
Marks
Blood
Animals
Family/Friends

It's ok if you don't have any toys. We can discuss which household items you are able to use.

If you’re not up for anything in my likes list then we can discuss why and what you would prefer. Also if there is anything you wish to do or try in my limits list then feel free to say so. If there is anything that is not in my likes or limits list which you wish to do or try then it can be discussed.

If you’re not willing to take pictures, go on webcam or do voice recordings even after the trust has been earned then please do not contact me as you are wasting your time.

I have an email and will have any messenger which you are using to have a Dom and Sub/Slave relationship ONLINE FOR NOW! We can see later as it progresses.

We can also have a short trial period to see if we get on and if we are comfortable with each other if that also suits your requirements.

If there is anything you wish to know which I have not mentioned then feel free to ask. Please do read carefully before contacting me as I will ignore you if what you are asking is listed in my post.

I am free most of the time so it won't be a problem. If somehow I cannot be online for some reason then I will tell you. I will leave you tasks to do and expect them to be done by the next day. If I also have to set you free from my ownership then I will explain and tell you why. I will not just neglect you and not tell you.

If you cannot make it online for some reason then you will have to make up for it when you are able to come back on. If you also cannot be my sub or slave for some reason then please do tell me why and don't just leave.

I understand if you are not from the UK and there is a time distance between us then we can work out what time we can be on to talk and so on so don't feel that we will only talk once a week because I will do everything I can to try and be on every day and expect you to do the same of-course but we can work that out.

Whoever is interested, you can reply to this post or send me a private message. Tell me what you look like, your likes, limits, what you’re looking for, how long for, how often can you do this? Also tell me what you’re happy to do right away and what you’re not happy to do right away. May you also tell me a little about yourself, age, where you’re from, your vanilla life, what things you have done before and so on?

Thank you for reading and good luck to everyone looking! Sorry this post was really long. Congrats if you read it all. :)

I hope to hear from you lovely people soon! :)

< Message edited by dom4sub247 -- 3/8/2013 2:30:38 AM >
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RE: Looking For An Online Submissive! (Webcam Required) - 3/8/2013 4:13:27 AM   
DarkSteven


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Hi there. My compliments on a well written first post. However, I have to tell you that since you're limited to online (why is that?), you're probably unrealistic expecting something long term. Once she finds someone RL, you'll be relegated to second place.

Welcome to the forums.

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RE: Looking For An Online Submissive! (Webcam Required) - 3/8/2013 4:45:22 AM   
muhly22222


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Welcome to the forums.

The only approach that would be better-suited to attracting women while still maintaining the online element would be to set aside kink and sex until you have the opportunity to meet in person. Use the period of your relationship where you're online to "hang out" with them. Whether it's something like watching a movie together (Netflix or your local libraries would be helps here), just chatting about current events or any other topic, or whatever, spend that time as friends. Then you can wait until you're together in person to do the really fun stuff.

Like DarkSteven said, it's difficult to establish something online on a long-term basis. If online is merely a way to pass the time until you can be together, then that's different...but that is what I was talking about in the paragraph above.

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RE: Looking For An Online Submissive! (Webcam Required) - 3/8/2013 5:02:35 AM   
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When I say long term online I do not mean it will be full on fun. Obviously it takes time to build on the trust and to fully connect. Yes it will be times to pass where we try things but until we fully connect I am not looking for full on domination.

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RE: Looking For An Online Submissive! (Webcam Required) - 3/8/2013 5:30:03 AM   
searching4mysir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dom4sub247

When I say long term online I do not mean it will be full on fun. Obviously it takes time to build on the trust and to fully connect. Yes it will be times to pass where we try things but until we fully connect I am not looking for full on domination.




Welcome to the discussion boards on CM.

I think you are missing something crucial that Dark Steven said:

quote:

Once she finds someone RL, you'll be relegated to second place.




Most women (worth having), unless they are married and cheating, will not be satisfied with keeping it online. She won't be able to feel your hand on her ass as you spank her, or feel your breath in her ear as you grab her from behind. You will merely be a masturbatory fantasy until she finds someone else who can physically be there for her.

Don't get me wrong, online can be a great way to originally meet or to keep things going once a relationship is established if you have to be apart (like a military deployment), but without a real world aspect to it, the chances of it remaining long-term are really small.

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RE: Looking For An Online Submissive! (Webcam Required) - 3/8/2013 7:07:06 AM   
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Welcome, enjoy the slave thing or are you just a webcamer trying to go straight?

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RE: Looking For An Online Submissive! (Webcam Required) - 3/8/2013 11:25:30 AM   
dom4sub247


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I agree with all the comments, For now I am just finding my way and also learning as I haven't got many years of experience and yes at some point I will find someone in real. For now It will be online until I know what exactly I am looking for and what kind of sub/slave I am looking for if that makes any sense.

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RE: Looking For An Online Submissive! (Webcam Required) - 3/9/2013 8:36:40 AM   
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I fear that learning about BDSM via online domination may be like trying to learn about sex by watching porn, but best of luck to you.

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RE: Looking For An Online Submissive! (Webcam Required) - 3/9/2013 8:43:47 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: dom4sub247

I agree with all the comments, For now I am just finding my way and also learning as I haven't got many years of experience and yes at some point I will find someone in real. For now It will be online until I know what exactly I am looking for and what kind of sub/slave I am looking for if that makes any sense.



Welcome to the forums.
As someone who has had online d/s relationships in the past I can tell you that an online d/s relationship and a RT one are very different.

There are many subs/slaves who look for new dom/mes because they are also new and like the idea of learning together.

I would also through this caution out to the those who do sexual stuff on webcams.
Webcams can and are recorded and the videos are posted all over the net.

Good luck in your search.

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RE: Looking For An Online Submissive! (Webcam Required) - 3/9/2013 9:05:07 AM   
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OP>>Seriously, as a person who has done a lot of what you're talking about before transitioning. Its actualy easier to have a beer or two for courage (no more) and get your ass to a Munch or two. Go do it for real.

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RE: Looking For An Online Submissive! (Webcam Required) - 3/9/2013 7:44:26 PM   
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I wish this forum had up votes...

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