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new and learning - 3/10/2013 8:18:11 AM

hitmeplease

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hi im J.D. I'm 22 bisexual a masochist and a submissive although i think id like to find a mistriss who could train me to dom others while i would still serve as her slave ... im not sure how common it is but i met a leather family where a guy was the head of it he had been trained and choose freedom then he got his own slave both chose to remain slave and also have their own slaves now ... anyway ... thats kinda what i want im sure ill choose to stay on as a slave im also looking for this to be a romantic relationship now i feel like im posting a personal ad lol anyway im kind of an odd duck but i enjoy that about myself i have tryed impact knife and assplay and i=enjoy all of those .. overall i think i only have 2 hard limits no dismemberment/permenant injury and i refuse to let a man dom me i dont really know what else to say so if you have ?s let me know :-)

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RE: new and learning - 3/10/2013 8:26:46 AM

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Hi there, J.D. Wanna do me a favor? Change your profile background so it's not black text on a dark blue background.

I'm a little confused. If you're a bi sub and refuse to let a man Dom you, what kind of relationship if any would you have with a man?

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RE: new and learning - 3/10/2013 8:35:56 AM

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its changed to blue and white now

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RE: new and learning - 3/10/2013 8:37:00 AM

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let me know if thats better

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RE: new and learning - 3/10/2013 8:52:40 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: hitmeplease

let me know if thats better

That is easier to read.

Welcome to the discussion boards, JD.

If I may make a suggestion on your profile: Copy/paste it into a word processing software (Word, etc.) and run a grammar and spell check on it. Complete sentences with proper punctuation will be your friend. You want to make a good impression on these leather mistresses, don't you? Put in the basic effort so that you don't appear lazy and undisciplined. You only get one chance at a first impression.

Don't be afraid to show up at a munch and get to know people in your community face-to-face. Show these women why they should allow you to serve them by being polite and respectful, and allowing them to see the "real you" outside of the masochistic you. There are far more vanilla times in a poly family than there are play times and they will need to know that they like hanging out with you. In doing so, you'll actually make friends, and through that friendship they may choose to beat you. Even friendships are relationships. Women don't like being fetish delivery systems, so treat them as women FIRST.

< Message edited by searching4mysir -- 3/10/2013 8:53:34 AM >

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RE: new and learning - 3/10/2013 8:55:50 AM

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Welcome hit, interesting stuff, hope it works for you.

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