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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/13/2013 12:18:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil

Relax and have some fun "Mr. Ive got more than 20 years of this under my belt" hahah

You don't think he was having fun while he was out in the world gaining that experience?

I can't speak for everyone, but I can promise you that I wouldn't find it very "pleasing" when people want to talk down to those who learned much through their life experiences. Especially when the disrespectful sounding person also comes across as rather wet behind the ears.

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/13/2013 2:05:19 PM

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Sarcasm darling... Apperently I should have put quotation marks around "advice".

Oh, you should have said. I don't do sarcasm - I'm British.

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/13/2013 3:27:15 PM

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See, when you please your partner (girlfriend who is not a domme), she will want to make you happy.

SatanicDevil, this is the point where ya lost me. I have been Domme to my fair share over the years...and yes, I wanted my submissives and bottoms to be happy. I know this might be a strange concept but...someone can be as happy as they want to be and I will STILL (joyfully) beat the H out of them. My happiest, contented moments often spark my sadism. My slave is also my boyfriend and I don't have a problem (in the beginning it gave me fits) with integrating the two.

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But the rewards recieved for being a good subby are much more pleasing...It feels like your in Heaven...
Youd be on your knees the next moment telling your mistress "Please Mistress how can i be a better slave" although youve been a good one.

Usually by the time he is "in Heaven" he is a drooling, incoherent, subspacey guy...who I wouldn't allow to go down on his knees cuz he'd likely fall and break something. But yeah, I hear ya. My boy's slavehood is coming along nicely...and yes, he tries to find new ways to please me simply out of adoration and a need to make my life more comfortable.

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Mistresses are much more demanding...

Okay, you got me here. When I was in vanilla relationships I tried to obey the "rules" my mother shoved down my throat and made no demands at all. However, I know many vanilla women who are very demanding (some would even qualify as complete bitches, lol).

I don't need to be demanding all the time. I train him to do things the way I like them done and if he forgets then I gently remind him. He dislikes doing an inferior job and is driven by his own nature to please me and...needs to feel my approval.

Sorry, OP, I'll have to end this note sooner than I had planned cuz my butt hurts (bad coccyx bone) and I want to toddle off to play some Pokemon. Btw, IMHO, your post...sounded like "sub frenzy" was affecting your head somewhat. When I feel myself going into shark mode, lol, I back away from the computer until I've cooled off.

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/20/2013 9:35:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia

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See, when you please your partner (girlfriend who is not a domme), she will want to make you happy.

SatanicDevil, this is the point where ya lost me. I have been Domme to my fair share over the years...and yes, I wanted my submissives and bottoms to be happy. I know this might be a strange concept but...someone can be as happy as they want to be and I will STILL (joyfully) beat the H out of them. My happiest, contented moments often spark my sadism. My slave is also my boyfriend and I don't have a problem (in the beginning it gave me fits) with integrating the two.

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But the rewards recieved for being a good subby are much more pleasing...It feels like your in Heaven...
Youd be on your knees the next moment telling your mistress "Please Mistress how can i be a better slave" although youve been a good one.

Usually by the time he is "in Heaven" he is a drooling, incoherent, subspacey guy...who I wouldn't allow to go down on his knees cuz he'd likely fall and break something. But yeah, I hear ya. My boy's slavehood is coming along nicely...and yes, he tries to find new ways to please me simply out of adoration and a need to make my life more comfortable.

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Mistresses are much more demanding...

Okay, you got me here. When I was in vanilla relationships I tried to obey the "rules" my mother shoved down my throat and made no demands at all. However, I know many vanilla women who are very demanding (some would even qualify as complete bitches, lol).

I don't need to be demanding all the time. I train him to do things the way I like them done and if he forgets then I gently remind him. He dislikes doing an inferior job and is driven by his own nature to please me and...needs to feel my approval.

Sorry, OP, I'll have to end this note sooner than I had planned cuz my butt hurts (bad coccyx bone) and I want to toddle off to play some Pokemon. Btw, IMHO, your post...sounded like "sub frenzy" was affecting your head somewhat. When I feel myself going into shark mode, lol, I back away from the computer until I've cooled off.

Interseting and informative.

Thankx Cynthia.

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/24/2013 8:48:58 PM

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I have something to say to all of you, especially the sub with the original post. We all started exploring our kinks at different times in our lives. Just because a Domina/Dom feels that they were born naturally superior, or whether they worked their way up the ladder to reach there place in our community, Or you have always felt submissive, and desire to please and serve someone, we all have one thing in common, we did not start out knowing the perfect and only way to please, or start out by knowing everything there is to controlling another person. Somewhere along the way we all had different lessons to learn, and for some it takes longer to learn these lessons. I am grateful for all the more experienced subs that I got to meet along my journey, they gave me many ideas of and inspired my creativity in my sessions. I am also grateful for the Mistress that trained me when I was 18, who showed me that you can have a very soft voice, and still swing a sharp whip! I know you will find the Mistress/ Slave of your dreams if your dedicated and willing to put in the extra energy to show them that they are valuable and your grateful for what they can teach you.

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