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ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/12/2013 12:41:42 PM

slavetoEM60

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Hello My Collar Me Friends :-)),I Thought I Would Stop By And Spread Some Inspiration Your Way Espcially To Those Who Are New And Are Seeking A Kind Word Or A Friend :-))
I Want To Let You Know That You Are Special And Unique,And You Chose This Lifestyle For Your Own Personal Reasons. NEVER! Be Ashamed Of Who And What You Are Sub/Slave/Dom/Domme/Master/Mistress/Switch You Have PRIDE! Intelligence,Strength,Honor,Integirty,RESPECT,You Have Self-Esteem And Self Confidence. You Live Your Life In Which Makes YOU Happy,Don't Let Anyone Tell You You Are WRONG! For Choosing This Lifestyle.
People In The VANILLA COMMUNITY Judge Us Unfairly,And Have So Many Misconceptions What BDSM Is Really All About,So To Them We Are WEIRDOS,FREAKS SICK,PERVERTED, But In Reality We Are Just Like Our Vanilla Counter Part. We Have Jobs, We Are Married,Have Children,We Love,We Have A Heart,Emotions And Feelings,We Are No Differnet Except For Our KINK!. It SAaddens Me Because With All The Information About BDSM I See No Reason For IGNORANCE Or STUPIDITY,But Some VANILLA People Find It Easier To JUDGE Us And ASSUME! What This Lifestyle Is All About Instead Of Doing Their Research.
Don't Let Other People Lead You Away From This Beautiful Lifestyle Because Of Their Own Lack Of Knowledge.We Live This Lifestyle Because It Means Somethng To Every Single One Of Us.We Make Deep Connections And Bonds With Each Other And Our Masters/Mistresses. In Closing I Want To Say I Am PROUD To Be A SLAVE And I Am Honored To Have Many Friends In This Lifestyle And I Think You Are All AWESOME,SPECIAL And UNIQUE In My Eyes.. May God Always Bless You,Your Friends,Your Partner (If You Have One) And Your Loving Family ALWAYS. I RESPECT You For Who And What You Are,And I Would NEVER Judge You Based On Your Lifestyle,Appearance,Social Standing,Whther You have Money Or Not,Or How You Choose To Live Your Life. I Like You Just The Way You Are,And To Me You Are A BEAUTIFUL PERSON Inside And Out. You All Take Care Of Yourselves And Be Kind To One Another. :-)) Peace,Love And Happiness To You. :-))

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/12/2013 9:34:43 PM

sexyred1

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Once again, you are not a special snowflake because you are into BDSM. You are not special in any way, shape or form. You just like it. Just like vanilla people like vanilla stuff.

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/12/2013 11:28:26 PM

MalcolmNathaniel

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I am! I'm a special snowflake!

Just like all the other special snowflakes.

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/13/2013 12:00:28 AM

AthenaSurrenders

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Well, thank you for the kind thoughts. I can't say I've ever felt judged or excluded from the vanilla community. It's kinda like, some people like fish and chips on Friday, some people like to go out for a curry. I've certainly never felt people might 'lead me away' from my own relationship preferences.

As a side note - isn't it quite hard work typing with a capital at the beginning of every word? That seems like a lot of extra keystrokes. Or is there some sort of predictive text thing I don't know about that makes it happen. I understand why people use lazy typing, but why harder typing? Is this a stylistic choice? If so I have to say, it makes you much harder to read, as does the light green on white colour scheme.

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/13/2013 12:26:27 AM

MAINEiacMISTRESS

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Awwww, I feel all warm and fuzzy now!

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/13/2013 8:36:39 AM

JeffBC

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
Well, thank you for the kind thoughts. I can't say I've ever felt judged or excluded from the vanilla community.

I agree. I just don't find myself in an adversarial position to "the vanilla community".

For the record, the only people who have ever tried to "save" Carol from me are BDSM people. And honestly, even that is really, really rare.

< Message edited by JeffBC -- 3/13/2013 8:37:55 AM >

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/13/2013 11:12:18 AM

peppermint

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Everyone, both vanilla and kinky is unique. Not everyone kinky has good self esteem and self confidence. Many, kinky and vanilla, search for those qualities and fail to find them.

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Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/13/2013 11:16:55 AM

DesFIP

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Since I don't go around forcing my sex life into people's nose who don't want to know about it, I've never been judged. But when you give out too much information, that judgment will be fair not unfair. Because you're not allowing them to consent to knowing about this so you got what you deserved, op.

Plus a more judgmental profile I've never read. Talk about ageism!

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/13/2013 11:37:05 AM

TNDommeK

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Well thank you for those kind words!

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/13/2013 12:21:25 PM

JeffBC

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Let's just leave it at, I agree with Des.

< Message edited by JeffBC -- 3/13/2013 12:55:11 PM >

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/13/2013 1:12:11 PM

peppermint

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By the way, in your journal you got the definition for topping from the bottom wrong. You might wish to go to the Ask A Mistress forum and learn something new.

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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden.

Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/13/2013 1:15:47 PM

needlesandpins

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i didn't read what you wrote because for some strange reason you chose to capitalise every word and that did weird things to my eyes.

needles

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/13/2013 2:31:12 PM

myotherself

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but but but...I LIKE being a freaky, sick weirdo pervert!

*sobs*

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/13/2013 4:20:37 PM

pig5lave

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Hey, I'm a good piggy, with lots of Intelligence,Strength,Honor,Integirty,RESPECT,Self-Esteem And Self Confidence.

Maybe I didn't oughter be a piggy after all..................

Wots 'Integirty'? Is it something I want to have?

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/13/2013 5:28:09 PM

Kaliko

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The lady doth pontificate too much, methinks.

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/14/2013 10:44:33 AM

HarryVanWinkle

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Am I The Only One Who Finds Every Word Being Capitalized To Be Extremely Hard To Read?

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/14/2013 11:38:48 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

Am I The Only One Who Finds Every Word Being Capitalized To Be Extremely Hard To Read?

You are not and it's downright annoying too.

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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden.

Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/14/2013 12:09:26 PM

Cuffkinks

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"To Them We Are WEIRDOS,FREAKS SICK,PERVERTED"

I resemble that remark.
Yes I am a weirdo, a freak, sick, and perverted. And I wear it well.
If I gave a shit what people thought of me, I wouldn't have done half the things I've done in my life.
Thanks for the kind words. I send them right back to you.

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/14/2013 12:36:42 PM

Charles6682

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We do need more postive messages like this on this board.It does show that there are some descent people on this site.As for the vanila community,I haven't had had too much of a problem.Every once in awhile theres some smart ass with their their little comments but who cares.Can't please everyone on this planet.Just be happy with who you are and thats important.Am I special because I am into this way of life?No.However,I am quite comfortable in my own skin and I wouldn't deny this part of who I am either.

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RE: ALittle Bit Of Inspiration For All In The Lifestyle - 3/14/2013 12:50:41 PM

MistressBrenda1

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I agree with charles and cufflinks,Yes her font is annoying,but maybe it is just the way she types. I read her profile and latest journal entry and she has a right to her opinions as we all do,she was only trying to be nice and say kind words,and she has not been back and said anythihng else about things that are being said about her from the mean to the 2 that were nice.I don't think she meant any harm,she just passed on some kind words for everyone.But i can see from all the mean responses you don't like her,but she has not come back here to fight,bitch or compalin about any nasty thing that was said about her,so that tells me she respects your opinion of her and like all of us have a right to our own opinion. and she never has said anything mean or nasty to anyone here,she was just trying to be nice,even though her font is annoying i can read it just fine.i don't have any problem reading it. I am happy to see at least 2 people wrote somethng nice instead of the BASHING she is getting here from alot of people who she has no issues with.I call that UNFAIR! but it is just my own opinion.

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