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Potential New sub (gay male) - 3/12/2013 8:51:39 PM

Curley61

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Just introducing myself. I'm considering a lifelong relationship with a Dom if the dating goes well and things progress. He seems to think I would be a good sub. I've always been more on the passive side, but at a first glance, one would think I'm an alpha, top, dominating, aggressive man. Some of that may or may not be true. lol He thinks he can help me make breakthroughs that would please him. Him feels he is a man that can get my head around the various issues and make a good sub for a Dom in complete control.

If anyone shows any inclination of being more aggressive than me, I tend to take the passive role. The thought of a man I can love and trust that I can give up full control to is actually a good feeling. So, I'm here to learn, explore and with his help come to a decision. I'm here to also make new friends that may understand my concerns, wishes, etc....

Thanks

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RE: Potential New sub (gay male) - 3/13/2013 6:02:38 AM

CynthiaWVirginia

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Welcome to the message boards' side of CollarMe.

I hope the one you're looking for...finds you soon.

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RE: Potential New sub (gay male) - 3/13/2013 6:28:10 AM

MissImmortalPain

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Welcome to the forum side of collarme. There is some great advice to be had here so don't be scared to ask any questions that you might have. Just remember as you read the advice that everyone lives their life in a different way and in the end you are the one that will decide what is truely right for you. Good luck.

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RE: Potential New sub (gay male) - 3/13/2013 6:49:20 AM

pig5lave

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Yes, welcome to you and all best wishes with your learning. Feel free to chat any time.

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RE: Potential New sub (gay male) - 3/14/2013 8:46:08 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome curl.

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RE: Potential New sub (gay male) - 3/14/2013 8:57:07 AM

Curley61