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jtboss -> New guy (3/13/2013 12:40:34 PM)

Never tried something like this out .... got out of a long term relationship and trying something new and fun. And when I mean new to something like this very new .... was in a long term for over 6 years just looking for fun



DarkSteven -> RE: New guy (3/13/2013 2:20:09 PM)

Hi there. Your profile says you're a submissive man, looking for submissive women?



pig5lave -> RE: New guy (3/13/2013 4:02:01 PM)

Oh yes; so it does. Doesn't say much else. Might be an idea to write something on there............

Welcome; sort of. (Nice bod tho........lol)



OohAahMrs -> RE: New guy (3/14/2013 8:21:44 AM)

You must be the new guy, welcome to CM



jtboss -> RE: New guy (5/8/2013 4:14:57 PM)

Still trying to get use to this site and lifestyle no luck yet



TieMeInKnottss -> RE: New guy (5/8/2013 5:12:24 PM)

Welcome JT. I, like DS, am a little confused & if we are...it is probable that women reading your profile are as well! You are a male sub who is "not into beating the crap out of women" and "more for the sex" and are looking for a female sub? I think you may have some misconceptions. Most sub women (at least ones on a BDSM site) are not looking for sub men...I could be wrong. Also, if you are thinking you are a sub because you don't want to beat women...there are many, many males, females, Dom/Domme, subs...who are not interested in that either unless they happen to also be interested in S&M. Perhaps, we could give you more direction if you add some more info to your profile.



jtboss -> RE: New guy (5/8/2013 5:16:41 PM)

Thanks for the help yea I'm going to update my profile good look out .... and I'm looking for a dominant women if that answers some questions



HaveWhipWillTrav -> RE: New guy (5/8/2013 5:45:00 PM)

Well welcome anyways.



Rasciallymisty -> RE: New guy (5/8/2013 6:35:59 PM)

Greetings and wleocme to the forums and Collarme.

kar



ameekkat -> RE: New guy (5/9/2013 5:12:59 AM)

Welcome, and do not be afraid to ask questions...



TieMeInKnottss -> RE: New guy (5/9/2013 9:01:22 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: jtboss

Thanks for the help yea I'm going to update my profile good look out .... and I'm looking for a dominant women if that answers some questions



Then edit your profile. Most people will "search" by that and then you will not even be on the "Domme" radar. Also, drop down to the "ask a mistress " forum & there is a lot of useful info since you are so new...might as well start off on the right foot!



jtboss -> RE: New guy (5/9/2013 5:51:35 PM)

Much appreciated everyone .... I'm assuming this is a dumb question but dominant women usually don't interact first on this shit? Sorry still really new and curious



searching4mysir -> RE: New guy (5/9/2013 5:56:14 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: jtboss

Much appreciated everyone .... I'm assuming this is a dumb question but dominant women usually don't interact first on this shit? Sorry still really new and curious


Not here, generally. They have more mail than they can contend with on a daily basis that they don't need to search out a sub.



lizi -> RE: New guy (5/9/2013 5:58:08 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: jtboss

Much appreciated everyone .... I'm assuming this is a dumb question but dominant women usually don't interact first on this shit? Sorry still really new and curious



There really aren't all that many lifestyle (as opposed to financial) Dommes out there period. You are one of many fish in a sea of submissive men. No, Dominant women may not initiate contact, they don't have to. If you'd like to get to know someone you'd do best to be proactive and try to stand out from the hundreds of other submissive men trying to get her attention. It can be done [:)]

Remember that Dominant women are women first and likely looking for things that will interest her as a person. Approaching with a great personality and with some conversation will put you ahead of the crowd. It's no different than getting the attention of women anywhere else.



jtboss -> RE: New guy (5/9/2013 5:58:09 PM)

Alright thanks



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