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AMAZONLADYDOMME -> I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/14/2013 5:10:52 PM)

Hi everyone :)

I'm Anna (no not the one from fifty shades), 24 year old girl looking to get more into bdsm.

I'm located about half an hour outside central London and I'm interested in meeting other people like me. Preferably people of a similar age. Especially girls, to be friends and share experiences.

I've had a couple of long term relationships where I've wanted to try being more dominant and it hasn't gone down too well with the other half! So I'm starting afresh and have joined this site and a couple of others to hopefully meet people in a similar situation and gain knowledge from others.

I'm extremely leggy (6 foot 2 ;) ) so I'm guessing that my long legs will play to my advantage in the domme part! I like to think I'm very pretty too (unless people have lied to me which is possible!)

I'm just a bit lost really, I think one of you needs to take me under your wing! Hehe.

I have so many questions e.g

Do you put pictures of yourselves on here? Do you show your face in pictures? What do you actually do when you go on webcam with people, like how is it possible to do certain things for example spanking? Would you ever meet with people from here?

Sorry if I seem a bit stupid, I've just had very high pressure on me to be regular and ordinary my entire life so this is quite a big step for me! I've been looking at a few profiles and my eyes are wide as dinner plates!

Thanks in advance to anyone who replies :)

A xxx



OsideGirl -> RE: I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/14/2013 5:12:01 PM)

Welcome to the forums.

There's a lot of great info here.



sweets1966 -> RE: I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/14/2013 5:17:17 PM)

hello Anna. i can't help you much in the domme part.. but the best piece of advice i have received from someone (and he is in your country actually) is to be yourself and never stop learning. it sounds as if you have a great attitude *smiles* well begun in my opinion.

*considers wearing 6 inch heels the next time she talks to Anna*



OohAahMrs -> RE: I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/15/2013 8:27:18 AM)

Welcome am, no need to be afraid, you can scream later.



trancespottingpl -> RE: I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/15/2013 6:22:40 PM)

Hey Anna, welcome to the forums... I would love to see a picture of you for many reasons lol - I love tall women (I'm 6'1 myself) and I've dated two girls named Anna and all the ones I've met were beautiful = )

Too bad ur in London = / but there's a lot of people from the UK here it seems like



ResidentSadist -> RE: I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/15/2013 7:41:38 PM)

So I looked up your profile before I read your OP and wondered what a gay 99 yo trans dominant would be scared of. The I read your OP.

"Do you put pictures of yourselves on here?"
- Yes we put pictures.

"Do you show your face in pictures?"
- Only if we have no reason to hide our lifestyle. Face and body shots initiate more contact on the other side (dating side)

"What do you actually do when you go on webcam with people, like how is it possible to do certain things for example spanking?"
- Cam sessions revolve around individual interests. I imagine they vary quite a bit according to personal desires. You will have to use the search box up there in the right hand corner to look that up. Tons of threads about it.

"Would you ever meet with people from here?"
- I met my current slave here. Have met many people from here over the years. It is just like real life, 90% of the people do not have similar interests or are whackos, you gotta' cut through the weeds to find the flowers.

Welcome aboard, have fun.



ResidentSadist -> RE: I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/16/2013 12:14:22 AM)

Hi Anna. Welcome to the forums. Quite an interesting place to hang out and get a vast array of viewpoints. I think the fear of the new is thrilling. But then again I'm a masochist. I trust the dominant to know wtf they are doing. I suggest reading some of the books on Master's (ResidentSadist) list. Go to as many munches and events as you can. Take the classes and the workshops. Talk to people and ask questions. I have found people in the lifestyle mostly love to share their experience and knowledge. Some things you just can't learn from a book.

Yes I show my face and body in pics. I am lucky that it doesn't matter who knows me or what I'm in to. Yes I've met some people from the other side mostly. After chatting a bit to make sure they weren't just wankers. Played with some. Had short relationships with a few. Stayed great friends with some. And currently live with Master. Monday will be 9 months since we first met in person. And we have only been apart 3 days since then excluding weekends when I worked and He still lived an hour away.

Online webcams works for some. But there's nothing like the real thing.

Enjoy your journey. Hope you keep an open and inquisitive mind.



samdarella -> RE: I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/16/2013 12:46:59 AM)

Ok that is freaky. Somehow my post showed up as Master's. Hmm wonder if I can edit.



FrostedFlake -> RE: I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/16/2013 2:23:14 AM)

Hi, Anna.

The forum might have answers to your questions and a laugh or two. I don't think you have good reason to worry. Tall, gay, Asian centenarian transvestites are really very popular among the like minded.

You seem to be doing all right. And, Good Luck with that rewrite.



TNDommeK -> RE: I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/16/2013 3:36:26 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: samdarella

Ok that is freaky. Somehow my post showed up as Master's. Hmm wonder if I can edit.



I was wondering what happened,lol.



dawnspirit -> RE: I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/16/2013 10:11:53 AM)

[sm=welcomewave.gif] Anna

You shouldn't be scared; your not only a Domme but an Amazon Domme [sm=mistress.gif] ; what ever will your subs think of you ! [:D]

I've been advertising here for a short while but have only just introduced myself.

Graham x



snappykappy -> RE: I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/16/2013 10:17:24 AM)

a simple question which u mentioned u have had a couple of long term relationship what does everyone think means the time frame for a long term relationship more than a year or three years or what length of time



slaveboihere -> RE: I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/17/2013 2:11:30 AM)

Odd; she appears to have now become a slave, with neither profile text nor pics...........what did you guys say to her??!! lol



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: I'm new! (and a bit scared) (3/17/2013 4:44:36 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveboihere

Odd; she appears to have now become a slave, with neither profile text nor pics...........what did you guys say to her??!! lol


I'm guessing she got swamped with all of the creepy/wanky emails that new female dominants get on this site and got freaked out, changed all her stats to not show up in searches.



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