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Very New - 3/15/2013 12:31:54 PM

xxlibbyxx

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Needing some advice about entering into this lifestyle.

A little apprehensive but just looking for general advice to help me on my way.

Of the submissive persausion so just need to mold it better

Thank YOu

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RE: Very New - 3/15/2013 12:35:47 PM

Thaz

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Welcome Libby.

Get thee to a munch. Feel free to message me about how to find one.

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RE: Very New - 3/15/2013 1:16:02 PM

GoddessManko

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Hi Libby,
My best advice is to stay within your realm of comfort, familiarize yourself with BDSM activities (as many as possible) to weigh your hard and soft limits. Know what you want in a Dom and Master and to always go with you gut. Your best adviser on what you need and are seeking is YOURSELF. Good luck! :)

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RE: Very New - 3/15/2013 2:02:52 PM

TenderTorment

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Welcome to the boards, some good tips already, I would add to that with hang around the forums, lot's of good threads and opportunities to learn at your own pace, some good debate, helpful advice and some wise heads all topped off with a little bit of lunacy.
Have fun

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RE: Very New - 3/15/2013 2:36:21 PM

searching4mysir

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FR

#1: Familiarize yourself with the Terms of Service.

#2: Just because you are submissive doesn't mean ANYONE has the right to boss you around or demand anything from you until you agree to be THEIR submissive. You will have a lot of "bow down bitch" emails. Ignore, block, delete. Report if the email is abusive, harassing, or violates TOS (see #1).

#3: Have fun exploring. Use your head about who you allow access to your body. If something seems "funny" or unusual, feel free to put a stop to it.

#4: Understand code words, like discrete/discreet often means married and cheating. If that is an issue for you (you don't want to be someone's dirty little secret or piece on the side) then nothing says you have to engage.

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RE: Very New - 3/15/2013 5:19:30 PM

MasterCruzer

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I am very new to the lifestyle altho my fiance is experinced and I need a little advice and possible a mentor

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RE: Very New - 3/15/2013 5:34:21 PM

searching4mysir

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ORIGINAL: MasterCruzer

I am very new to the lifestyle altho my fiance is experinced and I need a little advice and possible a mentor

1. It is bad form to hijack another's Intro thread. Start your own.

2. A mentor can only happen in real time. Join your local community and get to know the people. You'll find a mentor there.

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