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Duskypearls -> RE: Is sexual relations important to you? (with dom/master etc..) (5/7/2013 2:59:31 PM)
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I totally get what the OP refers to, and can easily see/imagine the blowjobs he receives from males might have nothing to do with sex, but only power display.
I can think of situations in which sexual acts have nothing to do with sex, but power.
In rape, it's about power, and overpowering someone, which in a way might translate to the ultimate in topping...most distastefully, no doubt, but topping, nevertheless. It is forced upon one, and at that moment, the rapist/topper is king of the mountain. Having the ability and power to be able to shame another man in such a socially unacceptable way may feel like the ultimate in aphrodisiacal power.
In war, it's similar... it's not about sex, but power and overpowering. There are combatants that relish raping the vanquished (mostly females, but sometimes males), not because they're sexually attracted, but because they want to conquer, shame and humiliate (plant their flag, as it were), as well as impregnate the vanquished which not only spreads their seed (power play), but diminishes the purity of the bloodlines of the vanquished (more power play...a takeover, as it were), so the conquered are mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically, sexually and socially annihilated in the most obscene way...completely taken/overpowered.
When the OP receives a bj from a male perhaps it's like a "subject" paying homage to the king, no matter how distasteful it is to the subject, to the king, it is defined, expected, and received in the mindset of it being a power play to make/show the subject, in this case male, that the king has the ultimate power position.
That the dom/top gets sexual pleasure and release out of it is a nice side dish, but is neither the point nor purpose of the act.
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